Is it just a perspective shift?
2006-07-08 08:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all have certain events in relationships that stay in our hearts that are special. these are the ones that stay with us. others must not have been as good and meaningful as what we had once thought
2006-07-08 08:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in a way. The older you get, your priorities and tastes change. When I was 23 or so, I had a woman that loved to cook dinner for me, but I didn't appreciate that until I was around 30. We dated for about three years, and to this day she seems to stay in my heart. It's all a part of growing and changing, and sometimes people grow apart so much that there isn't even a love type feeling at all anymore.
2006-07-08 15:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It simple if think for moment okay when you first start liking someone it like puppy love. When you are in elementary school an boy holds your hand you think your in love then but not really. You may remember him but not your feelings for him. Puppy love goes away. In high school you may like a guy that in your algebra class and you think your are love with because you swore if says something to you will die. You are infatuated with this guy but not love. Every woman has had a crush on man and has lust after a man before. You forget loves that are not that serious but ones you put you blood, sweat, tears, mind, body, soul, heart, and your emotions into them type of relationships you cannot forget about.
2006-07-08 15:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When You date somebody or court somebody it is not love, Its basically testing each other, guaging and assessing how much you gel, maybe we do it in different circumstances in different ways, we go out , goto moovies, even stay with each other, when we know that we cant sacrifice for each other or compromise for each other then we move on to the next prospect,
if meanwhile we gel and our chemistry works, then we are in love and we ddecide long term
2006-07-08 15:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you move on and get attracted to others. people who you truly love, will mean more and hurt more because you still have strong feelings. I think over time, feelings change, sometimes for the better, other times for the worse. But you cannot always control who u fall for or fall from.
2006-07-08 15:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because such is life!! sometimes it's chemistry!! other times it's not meant to be!! but trust me, those who seem so important to you now but are over with will make you laugh in the future about how stupid you were then !!!
2006-07-08 15:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by notruthinrumors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out, let me know. I know how you feel!
2006-07-08 15:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by NotEvenInterested 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its jst life.....all can happen
2006-07-08 15:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Paddy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋