girlfriend gym?

Question

my gf goes 2 dis gym dat has guys as personal trainers. they flirt with her.. and i really dont like it. also she wears a top which exposes her tummy when she stretches her hands. and i am not at all comfortable about the whole situation. what should i do?

Answer 1

First, you need to get some more self confidence and trust that your girlfriend is coming home with to be with you.

Second, you can, gently, let her know that you would appreciate it if she respected you enough to wear a larger shirt at the gym.

Third, if you date a beautiful women, other men WILL flirt with her...you've just got to get used to that.

Try to appreciate the fact that other men want to be with your woman, and she's coming home to you.

Answer 2

Jealousy is a form of insecurity. Fix your own insecurities first. This will only make your gf respect you all the more.

You should be flattered your gf is so pretty that others want to flirt with her. If she is a good person and truly loves you, she is not going anywhere just b/c some guy flirts with her at the gym.

Answer 3

My best friend went through the exact same situation. We both saw her flirting with one of the trainers. Here's what happened. He screamed at her, she got angry, saying nothing was meant by it, and left. A couple of days later everything was back to normal. That's the way to go about it. You don't know for sure whether she is interested in the trainers, but there's a good chance they are going to try to get more serious with her if you don't do something about it. Talk to your girl, not the trainers.

Answer 4

grow up

Answer 5

Please tell me that you are a teenager. If not, if I were her, I would drop you. Can't stand no insecure guys.

Answer 6

get your gang together and go kick their asses!