I am a good guy. I own a home and have a great job. My parents are still married. I had a good upbringing. I do not do drugs, smoke or drink. I have good manners and have never been in trouble with the police or the courts. I am not a violent person. I am honest and a great lover. What are my chances of meeting and being accepted by a non herpes woman?
2006-07-08 08:03:02 · 15 answers · asked by JohnDoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry - but i think it is over - do you have a gun ???
2006-07-08 08:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-01 04:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-13 08:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 10:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
John,
It is mostly what you think about women and yourself that matters. If you're confident that you can make a woman happy and that you don't have an hidden agenda against women, you'll find somebody you love. It is absolutely certain.
A lot of people are afraid of herpes but a lot of women are even more afraid of not finding the right guy so if you can convince them you are, you are.
However it would be nice if you didn't put any pressure on them once you break the news and it would also be nice if you made sure to become as asymptomatic as possible and learn about safe sex and know as much as possible about herpes. In other words, prepare yourself for your new true love to make yourself as attractive as possible. I'm sure you can. You sound like a nice guy.
Nathalie Foy
http://www.herpes-wise.com
2006-07-10 04:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nathalie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to change your tactic a bit - start going after intelligent women. This does NOT mean ugly ones, I mean what I mean: you will have to start looking for intelligent, smart, women.
Chances are, they will know about herpes.
Chances are, they won't be self-centered fake bimbos.
And then just date her, one day sit her down and tell her your story: you have herpes. Watch her reaction, she will first be searching her mind for whatever is in there about it - if she comes up with a solution herself (ie: "It's ok, we just won't touch each other if you're having an outbreak") then you're scott-free, she doesn't care. If she goes "Oh..." then let her know that you'd really like her to think about what it means, and that you really like her but it's something you have to live with and you want her to know about it.
She'll probably have thousands of past-life questions about it. If she asks, be truthful. Be prepared to answer, THINK about what you'll say BEFORE you get to the point.
Good luck pal, work out and read a book - and study something. You'll find a good girl.
... alternative: don't tell them, get good at one-daters' and wrap it up. /shrug
2006-07-08 08:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Solrium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is an really demanding difficulty to be in. yet there are a selection of ladies human beings which could seem previous the herpes element. you're merely not searching demanding adequate. women anybody is with broke *** dudes, low lives that ought to't get a job...and then finally end up helping them. Dudes that stay with their moms, are ugly as hell. Beat the residing **** out of them, and so on and so on...and they are nevertheless by way of their area! Get out of your circle and commence searching! in case you at the instant are not reeling in some females that are prepared to ignore the STD, then possibly you want to brush up on your recreation. I doubt they imagine you're gay reason you do not hit on them. p.s. you comprehend women human beings have herpes too....discover those females!
2016-11-01 11:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sooner or later you will find someone who will love and accept you, and won't judge you for having herpes. She may or may not have herpes herself, but what does it matter?
Just be yourself, and someone will come around soon enough. Just be patient.
2006-07-08 08:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a woman that she can only catch it when you are having an outbreak and tell her that you will use a condom each time during sex.my Dr says that you don't have to take pills everyday for herpes only during outbreaks.so if you take pills everyday ask your Dr about it.
2006-07-08 08:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say is if the woman is willing to stay with u and only and not have that much sex in her life then yes, u can have someone who dosent have it. or are u willing to use a condom with her for the time u are with her, because that is what will have to happen. and tell me how long will that last.
2006-07-08 08:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people love 1another then they would deal with anything just pray to lord to send you a good women that accept you 4 you
2006-07-08 08:09:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋