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How will we know you like us? What do you guys usualy do if you are attracted to a girl or you like her?

2006-07-08 07:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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...I just beat her over the head with my club and then drag her into my cave. It worked for my ancestors.

2006-07-08 07:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

If it's just a beginning "liking", then we'll make sure that we give them a bit of extra attention. Of course in this day and age, it's not uncommon for a girl to ask a guy out on a date. But I think that the guy should still make the first move.
Okay... So this is how it works...

If the person that I'm attracted to is
a) someone that I don't know very well... then I will ask immediately if they want to go out to lunch, breakfast or whatever. But it would purely be just "hanging out." And then we'll go from there. If the date was pretty good, then we'll go on a second one. Usually after two or three dates you should know if you want to take the relationship to another level. Because girls won't even go on the 2nd or 3rd if they didn't like you in return. These relationships tend to be more fragile than b). The hope is that through the immediate attraction you can build on a friendship underneath it.

b) someone that I've known for awhile...then this is harder because you don't want to lose a friend because it gets awkward afterwards. That's why this one takes more time to figure out what SHE is thinking. If I feel that she will have a mutual affection for me, then I will ask them. But these relationships tend to be more solid but less spontaneous because you know them very well already. The hope is that on top of the solid friendship, you build on a romantic relationship.

This is just my way.

2006-07-08 14:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by krazyreapr 2 · 0 0

So love, what is love? The dictionary defines love as:
Love (n) - strong affection
I find that definition of the word far too vague and should probably be given a more extensive definition. After all, isn't love far more than a "strong affection"? But how would you truly define such a meaningful word? I believe that the definition should describe some of the feelings experienced while in love: light-headedness, nervousness, joy, true happiness... these are only a few that I can think of (at least right this moment).
So, with these additions, the definition may look something like this:
love (n) - a recise joy or happiness experienced when having a strong affection for another.
I think that that definition looks better already, but still doesn't quite hit the mark... The definition should probably explain or at least hint at what being in love is all about. For example, being truly emotionally connected to your object of affection. After thinking about this, perhaps the definition would look more like this:
love (n)-a precise joy or happiness experienced when making a strong emotional connection and having strong affection for another.
Well, perhaps that's not exactly how it would be written in the dictionary, but I'm not a pro. Still, the definition could still use some improvement...It still doesn't seem to fully grasp what it means, what it IS to be in love, or to love. Perhaps the definition should express how one feels towards the person they love or are in love with. For example, when you love someone, perhaps you never want to let them out of your sight again. Or perhaps when you love someone, you want to grasp that someone and never let go, or you never want to let that person out of your sight again. Or perhaps when you love someone, you want to disappear with your special someone to a place you can both be alone and admire each other forever. So, after taking all of this into account, maybe the definition would look something like this:
Love (n) - a precise joy or happiness experienced when you want to be with someone and nobody else, or hold them and never let go, and you make a strong emotional connection and have a strong affection for someone

2006-07-08 14:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by eclipse3319 2 · 0 0

It begins with open communication. This builds trust. Then there is always being a genuine friend for her. This eventually leads to a wonderful relationship with her.

Having and sharing the values of Trust, Honesty, Respect, Caring, Sharing, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor, and Unconditional love is the way i show it to her.

2006-07-08 14:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1 0

Well, it depends on the age. Considering your 18 and potential love interests are probably around the same age.....I would say they would make excuses to be around you. Not talk to you, but just be with you as the work the courage to actually talk to you.

Some may be Mr. Funny to get you to laugh and that too is a way for him to be around you.

As the men get older, I believe they will be more direct and actually express themselves in a much more direct way such as asking you out or complimenting you.

2006-07-08 14:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shep 5 · 0 0

show affection to the girl...
when the girl knows that you care for her, she will pay attention to you and start liking you (depend on how you treat her)...
be more caring, gentleman, good listener to the girl you like... egoism wouldn't do in this century, as girls are not as weak as they used to be...
i like the final scene in the show 'Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo (2005)' whereby Deuce tells the inspector on what a girl really wants...he spotted right every criteria that a girl looks for...

2006-07-08 14:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by solvemaster 1 · 0 0

Well I'm not a guy but I think when they like someone they are always trying to find ways to hang out with you and looking at you when your not looking and smiling at you alot

2006-07-08 14:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Madison 1 · 0 0

Every Man is different. But the 2 things that i do is flirt with you and if i constantly look at you from afar

2006-07-08 14:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 2 · 0 0

sadly, i would totally ignore my crush. Never talk to her unless she talks to me. i would act really different around her compared to my normal self due to nervousness and self-consciousness. When i cant restrain myself from looking at her i may glance at her from far away or when shes is obviously not looking. That's just me, most guys i know do not seem to act like me.

2006-07-09 02:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by B C 1 · 0 0

Lots of presents and we act like idiots

2006-07-08 14:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by LW 4 · 0 0

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