2006-07-08 07:16:15 · 26 answers · asked by heidi 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Chicago
i would say on a first date (if he asked you out) that he should pay. if things are going well and you have a 2nd date, offer to pay! it will make his day.
i did this with my ex and it became where we each paid ever4y other time we went out. i dont' feel a guy should have to pay all time. if you are both into each other, why not take turns paying ... you are both having a great time and most definately are enjoying each other's time.
2006-07-08 19:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by surreal_survivor 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heidi I have known you a long time and I know damn good N well your not going to go out with some guy that is going to have you pay not on the 1st date anyway after the first date I don't mind paying it is a equal now a days but I still love it when a guy pays, the only time I think a women should pay is if she asked him out first!!
2006-07-08 14:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by mickeymom2boyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that asks for the date should pay. If the guy asks the girl out then he should pay. If the girl asks the guy out then she should pay.
How rude is it: “Will you buy me dinner?”
If you really want to be with them, then take the money out of the situation.
2006-07-08 19:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Keven P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look let's you and me just go dutch on these points. Ummm I'll get 2 for answering, you lost 5 for asking, you will gain 3 for a best answer chosen, and I will get 10 for the best answer picked :)) It's almost an even split come on!!! (Then I'll buy dinner lol)
2006-07-08 14:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married you bet, unless it's his birthday, fathers day. Is this a date ?? if not go 50/50 on the bill, might be nice to talk about this before you get to the restaurant
2006-07-09 19:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending of how far a long in the relationship, in the beginning yes. But as time goes on no.
2006-07-08 20:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by darren b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every single time. Taking turns is fine, and even spliting the bill is fine too. But it is a MUST on a first date.
2006-07-09 04:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proper etiquette dictates that the person who asks for the date pays for the date. Blind dates are commonly split (Dutch).
2006-07-08 16:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Manning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy is always paying for me even though I try to make it up for him. Even when I say I want to pay cause i feel bad.
2006-07-08 14:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before the meal is ordered make a comment, like, we're going halfs right? to see the reaction of the other person, or befor going out make it clear to each other, your each paying your own way.
2006-07-09 14:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by bobby-bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋