I have this older woman that lives across the street and she always bends over while she is working on her garden. I've talked to her before a couple times. She is single divorced and lives alone. I never see her bring home men or anything but she is always outside bending over. When I was over her house, I talked to her, then she mentioned that she wouldn't want my parents thinking anything was happening between us and she felt funny about me hanging out at her house. I never brought up anything about sex. I just said I didn't know what she was talking about. I told her that i thought she was attractive and she told me I was attractive too. This was three years ago. I never talk to her but I say hi to her and she is friendly to me. I'm 20 years old and she is like 50 but looks 40. Any ideas on seducing her?
2006-07-08 07:08:49 · 22 answers · asked by Mark L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-08 07:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Don't even think about it.
While you may be strongly attracted to her she has good reason to not be attracted to you. You could be her son.
Does she resemble your mother in any way? Could that be a factor in your attraction? Or is it just the sight of her bending over that has you attracted.
Remember, while the sight of her bending over excited you so much that was the last thing on her mind. Trust me. I know.
Why? Because I am only 15 years older than she is. You are however 30 years younger than her.
Go find a girl your own age. Not as easy but a whole lot better for you.
2006-07-08 07:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to seduce any woman is to start a open communication with her. That builds trust.
Then you have to be a genuine friend to her and that will get you into a relationship .
If she is a smart woman, she will realize that the "meeting of minds" is there and will go for it, otherwise she will play you for a fool.
2006-07-08 07:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seduce her, just ask her out for dinner, if she has issues and says no, go find someone closer to your own age. As she gets older, you will want someone younger. Why start something you can't finish.
2006-07-08 07:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Yolanda C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty big age gap. You may want to rethink your seriousness and commitment to something like this. How old do you think she will be when you are 30? Will you still be seriously interested?
2006-07-08 07:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she want s you so you have to make an effort. Try buying her flowers for her garden and going over there to help her plant them. Just say I saw these flowers and I thought they might look nice in your garden. If you see her working outside go bring some lunch and something to drink so you can go inside and have lunch with her
2006-07-08 07:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by camaroconvertible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bake her something like brownies or a casserole and take it to her house when your parents are gone, so they don't see you head over. Give her some flowers and be discreet. Don't throw yourself at her. Take it slow and easy. Offer to do nice things for her. See where it goes.
2006-07-08 07:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers, or maybe a balloon bouquet, with a message of would she like to go out to dinner, or movies, or maybe just a drive. See what develops
2006-07-08 07:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by mutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgettaaboutit! It's only your youthful manhood fantacizing about an attractive, sexual, experienced, seasoned woman.
2006-07-08 07:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing Mrs. Robinson to her by simon and garfunkle
2006-07-08 07:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness... you are SO in...
Take her a bottle of wine... and celebrate.. ANYTHING...
Ask her if you may slip into something a bit more comfortable... Namely HER!
You are SO IN with this lady you have no idea.
2006-07-08 07:11:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋