ok i feel like i am one of those guyz from early ages...i am very shy when it comes to attractive girls...first i find it hard to say anything and even if i do speak i tend to be very formal and act like a gentlemen…usually girlz tend to think I am not interested type of signal….and normally it remains that way...i am unable to speak my mind, flirt, and most of all be a bit informal type...i have a hard time starting a conversation with them....could it be my confidence? my eastern culture? or cuz i don't smoke/drink and go to parties... i am a good looking guy but i am sick of not being able to approach a girl in a way that would let the girl know that I am interested...or even to be just frndz…plz Girls give me tips as to how u feel a guy should approach you & guyz share your proven skills with me? I am not desprate but I feel like I am missing out big time…
PS: I am quite fun/funny but only when a friendship/relationship is formed..
2006-07-08 06:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I give u congrats on being honest!
Well it is normal that it is hard for u to approach girls! im 24 and no guy has not approach me .No boyfriend yet. so, it seems ur normal!
Just be your self. on what to do well...
Do u have any "girl as friends" that u like hanging around them?
Then hang around them and tell them to bring a friend u dont know and start slow by, just saying hi!
and if u like a girl ( be observant from far way watching her for a while) and if u see u really like her then , when u say hi give eye contact and always leave her wanting more like.. touch her arm when u leave ! little things like that go a long way!
It seems like u can speak ur mind just having them written is eaiser! I am exactly like that!!
Your not missing on anything keep enjoying being young!!
And being a gentleman is a good thing!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 07:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a friendship first then. dont go for the full approach! then turn on your jokes or w/e
be cool with it :)
2006-07-08 07:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta have alot of confidence, if shes hot you can't be nervous, they get that all the time.
2006-07-08 07:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww!!! i luv shy guyz...i'm shy too, but i'm sure u can hav a relationship wit an attractive gurl
2006-07-08 07:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋