Okay, then... I'm all fine if my sister wants to sleep together with her bf (still, if her bf betrays her or treats her like a whore, I'll break his neck!). She's an adult already, and she has her own life and manages it herself.
The real issue is while having sex, she screams, moans, and talks dirty so loud that it annoys me a bit.... Now, I still want to respect her privacy and since I also have sex in our flat with my gf... but I don't think we make too much noise while consummating our love... (or don't we...?)
Anybody... help me, please? What should I tell them? What should I do then?
PS: I'm 20 and my sis is 19...
2006-07-08 06:54:11 · 44 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey...just tell her that she is alttle bit too loud and it is uncomfortable for you...and maybe she might tell you they same about you and your girl. Both of you need to respect the others privacy and intamacy and not make it uncomfotable for each other...just talk about it. Maybe she can tone it down or ask you to step out for the night when her guy is over..or vice versa.
2006-07-18 16:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by toe_roper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I shared a house with my brother J., his gf was a screamer. She got over it when she was having it off one day and I went outside the bedroom and did MY best loud imitation of a screaming orgasm. You know moaning and screaming "DEEPER! HARDER! FASTER!" Until my brother started to laugh and lost his erection. After that, she bit his pillow rather than miss her dessert. Worked for me. Probably works better with a close friend or family member than it would with just a flat mate.
2006-07-20 19:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by rainbeauclown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell here that you can hear everything when she's doing it. You don't like it, and you respect her by keepin' quite when you are. Ask her to give you a heads up so you can make plans to be out of the house or something. If she's not respectful, then...embrass her. Really. Say something stupid to her friends or something. Or to her lover - like, I'm her brother (assuming). It's really gross to hear you guys. Could ya keep it down? Brothers shouldn't have to hear that. You have a sister? Wouldn't that bug the **** out of you?
2006-07-08 07:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by clivencheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww....if it makes you feel any better I heard my brother having sex with this chick the other night. It makes you cringle and scrunch I know. Hes my younger brother. I would mimic the noises they make when HE's THERE.....she'll blush and giggle cuz she knows she likes it.....then she'll complain that you dont havta say things like that when he's around. And then you can say well you dont havta scream so loud while hes pounding your cooter. She'll get the point.
2006-07-20 11:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
based off your previous submissions, I'm assuming your real issue is that your sister is sleeping with her b/f and not YOU!! last time you were upset that you weren't invited in the tub with your sister and your g/f. still haven't come up with the ideal romantic date with you sister before you marry the bi-sexual 18 year old chic? do you have anything else to do besides fantasize about your sister all the time?.......obviously, NOT
2006-07-19 12:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I don't know, I think I'd knock on the door and tell them the neighbors are out here. That they think it sounds really great, but it would be best if they could watch, too. I think I'd try that for starters.
2006-07-21 18:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I liked the idea to tape record it, and then blast it during breakfast, lol.
She doesnt sound like the type to get angry about it, but maybe she will tone it down a little, at least.
2006-07-20 07:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is rude and wrong, end of story. tell tehm flat out, they may just get embarrassed enough to stop (hopefully). If not, leave and maybe consider moving out... u dont have a lot of options here unless u like listening to it, which it sounds like you dont
2006-07-19 23:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by pcjthirdgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While they are doing it casually say that they are a bit louder tonight than usual- let them know you can hear them.I've been in the same situation- I dont understand how people can degrade themselves like that
2006-07-08 13:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you some homey, don't sweat your sis. I know it can be annoying to hear someone else having relations. Try to participate in your own excursions.
2006-07-21 03:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋