Im dating a girl 4 3 weeks now and she told me that she already loves me the first week. She calls me too much and she dosent work really. Shes getting on my nerves and I cant take care of another person. What should I do?
2006-07-08 06:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by Danny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Danny,
Why not say to her exactly what you said in this question? Maybe
you will get an indication from conversing with your girl, how to proceed. Honesty is the best policy, but stop leading her on if your done!
2006-07-08 06:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by citizen ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I will tell you what I told my 20 year old son, it is not up to you to provide a life for another person. A relationship should not be based on what someone can do for you or how they complete you, but how they bring out the best in the complete person that is you.
Let her find another sucker to latch onto and take care of her.
Good luck.
2006-07-08 06:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I think you should probably break up with her. If you feel this way about her right now, it will probably not get any better and you are going to resent her soon.. so if you end it now maybe you will at least have a friendship. If not, oh well.. I really think she sounds like she is one of those people who feel like they have to have somebody.... but beware if she doesn't take the break up well she will try to put all of her problems on you... especially if she's depressed. Don't fall for any of it.. good luck..
2006-07-08 06:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Angelrebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be lonesome for company and needs a friend really bad in you. And she also might feel really insecure and needs your attention. The best thing for you to do is set down with her and talk to her about how you feel about this. Be open and honest with her, you might be able to work something out with her. Good luck!
2006-07-08 06:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with her. Don't do it in a mean way, do it nicely at first, if she doesn't get the hint and keeps harassing you, then get mean. She sounds like a real loser.
2006-07-08 07:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by lfwtea3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her tell her to slow down. either this or if your not into her as much let her go. sounds like shes just being that tad bit overwelming. but yes be forward and honest
2006-07-08 06:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the "boot" Danny. She's just too immature for you. You don't want to end up being her sugardaddy
2006-07-08 06:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to give you some space and that you are not ready to say that you are in love.
2006-07-08 06:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her but thats ojnly if you want to do u love her? and if she doesnt help then just ask her to u no it might work
2006-07-08 06:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by lil` miss sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her to reduce her callings.Just tell her without offending her.
2006-07-08 06:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋