How do guys liked to be approached?

Question

I am looking more for a serious relationship. Not all about the physical part! I am shy though...so it's hard for me to flirt with a guy. How do guys liked to be approached when they are looking for a serious relationship as well?

Answer 1

You could possibly mention someplace you always like to go (to eat or whatever) or that you would like to go (make it easy). Hopefully they'll take the bait and ask if you'de like to join them right now. This should work well with someone you know a little bit.

Otherwise you may have to be a little more forward, possibly even asking them out. I'd say start with a little eye flirting, you know catching thier eyes a couple times (first for short period then longer). Then say, Hi my name is so and so. Flatter them perhaps. Mention someplace you like to go...Ask them there if they don't take the bait.

It helps them feel like they initiated it, meanwhile its very safe for them. In reality, I doubt most men care, but this is probably the "easiest" way for the more shy men. And will still work on those who like women to be more forward.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I think must of us don't mind to be approached by a girl. In fact, many guys are too shy to make the first move (just read Yahoo Answers and you see what I mean). Girls are usually better at that but they don’t even know it. Of course, there will be always some guys that would feel weird by it since they might want to be the one who does it. But hey, I don’t think there is a guy that wouldn’t like a nice sexy girl to approach him no matter what. Besides, you can always start a nice conversation, about whatever the situation could be that you two are, and take it from there. If you show lots of signs to him that you like him (look directly to his eyes, touch his hands and body, make nice comments about him, etc), he should take the hints and make the next move. Many guys are more afraid of being rejected than the actual act of asking out. So making little moves from each side can be good as both of you will find out in a nice way if the other likes you or not, and if not, there could always be a good friendship after that. Worse that could happen is that you two are not “compatible”. Then just move on, there will be more, we are billions on this world, so don’t worry! And what are you waiting for? You should be shutting down the PC and going out to get him ;)

Answer 3

The best way to approach a good guy is through open communication. We respect that very much because it builds trust. Being a genuine friend is very important to us too. We really want to be able to talk to you about everything and anything at any given moment in our lives and we depend on having a genuine person there for us no matter what., to give an honest answer.

The best way to break the ice is to search within yourself some interests that interest you first. Think of something that you've always wanted to do for fun and join a group of people who also share that same interest with you. Most good guys will also join in and then it is really easy after that to say hi and talk about your interests first.

Shy is just a perception. Shy really means that your a thinker type and that is always a good thing.

Answer 4

All fours, OK just kidding, Seriously, I think guy's like to approached with a lady that knows what she wants and once you show that your not playing games, he will either run or stay. I of course made the first move on my wife now of 15 years and I have to say it was a smart move on my part. If he says he loves you then if he is like most guy's he wants a response, like before 30 seconds go by. Doing stuff with your guy that he knows you don't like will also let him know that you are serious about him. I am not talking about just stuff in the bedroom but also like, if he goes bowling and wants you to go and you really don't care for it, he will see that you did it for him and he will be less likely to ask you to do it again, but it will show him. I hope I helped.

Answer 5

Every man is different. Some appreciate a more direct approach, while that may tend to scare off others. Men in general, I believe, do not like it when a woman just throws herself at them. They may see this as an easy catch at first but will end up not respecting her for fear that she approaches all men this way. Best bet is to walk up, say hello, introduce yourself and start up a neutral discussion about whatever is going on around you. If you're at a party, "______ sure knows how to throw a party, huh!" If you're at a sporting event, "So who are you rooting for?" Just keep it simple and see where it leads!

Answer 6

Guys don't like to be approached. I am not saying they might not find it flattering, but guys have a biological need to be the pursuer. That being said, give a guy subtle signals that you're interested, and then pull away a little. Don't come on too strong and let him do the work. Trust me, it works.

Answer 7

Hang out with him more than you hang-out with anyone else, give him signs that will let him know you are interested in him and know that this is what love is:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

-1 Corinthians 13:4-->8

Answer 8

Guys are like big kids don't be afraid approach anybody honesty and being for word all ways worked for me it worked for the one I'm with but if it doesn't theirs more than just one guy.

Answer 9

That all depends on the guy. Be yourself and you'll find the right person for you. If you try to figure out how to attract guys ~ and change your true self to do that ~ then you'll attract people who don't see the real you.

If you just be yourself, have fun and smile ~ you'll find what you're looking for...and someone who's looking for you.

Be confident ~ it works!

Answer 10

Let the guys do the dirtywork... Women seem liek they are begging when they approach the guy. It inflates the man's ego.