and loves to play them off on one another and laugh about it afterwards when he gets stoned.... i like my gf a lot and think her parents are brilliant so would it be wrong of me to smash this idiots head through every solid object i can find? They really dont deserve what this junkie moron is putting them through.
2006-07-08 06:37:44 · 16 answers · asked by ripsnate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's nothing to do with you, don't get involved. If your gf wants to do something, then just support her.
2006-07-08 06:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a product of poor parenting, and parents who allow this to happen, well what does that say about the communication between spouses? Time for the dude to be kicked out into the real world. Finally note of caution: think long and hard should you marrythis girl because you would then have to deal with these people for the rest of your life, not to mention two lousy grandparents
2006-07-08 06:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michael R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would be wrong. At 20, there is no reason his parents put up with that silliness, but that's their problem. Why make it yours? The world is full of lousy people, and you can't do a thing about it. So, have as little as possible to do with the jerk.
2006-07-15 05:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 20 they have had at least 15 years to control this they spoiled him and there's nothing that they can do, they are the ones letting him get by with it, sorry but you are just the BF, and its not your place, he's 20 time for him to move his A** OUT OF THE HOME!!!!
2006-07-08 06:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by jordenstan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would be wrong, and it sounds like his family would stand up for him if you did something like that, so you might lose your girlfriend, too.
Your best bet is to just mind your own business and help out your girlfriend and her folks when you can. And maybe start dropping hints about what a jerk he's being.
2006-07-08 06:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunte but not unusual... My sound/good advice to you is to STAY away from getting involved or you, yourself, will become a subject of the borther/s vindictiveness. If the parents are so dumb to not see through it.. let it go.
2006-07-08 06:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please Do NOT get involved in this. My little brother is a bit of sh*t to my mum but my partner would never interfere because he knows that, whatever he does, it's going to be wrong. Do get inbetween families. You will come off worse evertime.
2006-07-09 04:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by willowbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh don't do anything violent. if they were brillant they would have already kicked the guy out by now. if you become friendly with them maybe you could have a heart to heart talk with them and explanin your concerns about their welfare. but just remember when your inside the box it can be hard to listen to people outside the box. patience my friend patience.
2006-07-08 06:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can report this abuse to Yahoo. Or kick him out this will effectively stop the parents from enabling him.
2006-07-08 06:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kenneth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. They're all adults and can handle it. Never try to meddle with family business that's not your own.
2006-07-08 06:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it blood is thicker than water and his parents will stick by him
2006-07-08 06:49:55 · answer #11 · answered by wakeyuk2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋