i have a cousin sister. She is just like a friend to me. I never treat her as a sister but as friend. We were very close friends. But in mean time a little misunderstanding rised. Now i don have any contact with her. After a long time she has sent me a sms that this is my new number if want store else dont...
wat to do shall i reply her or just leave....
i'm totally confused.....!
2006-07-08 06:26:19 · 23 answers · asked by siv_ece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you got the hots for her!!!
2006-07-21 05:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by visuals786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's reaching out.
Why don't you contact her and just get together at a public setting, be a tourist for a day, have a good time: You can talk and see if you can patch up the differences. Maybe you can agree to disagree. It's not unusual for people to have differences and still be good friends.
2006-07-21 13:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lynda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reply to her, and try to work things out. You have a unique opportunity, so take advantage of it. You were once very close, and could be again. Don't allow a misunderstading to get in the way. She made the first step, now it's up to you to take the second step. Best of luck!
2006-07-21 06:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the good times you guys had....don't loose contact with her or let this little riff go on any longer between you two.
Get in touch with her and I bet that you guys will be best friends again.
It can get lonely out there and you guys need each other.
Good Luck to both of you.
2006-07-21 12:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were really that close, make contact. You can work through your differences. Put the ball back in her court. It sounds like, at first glance anyway, that she wants to work things out. Give it a chance.
2006-07-22 01:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tom I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not clear on your question. It sounds as if your cousin is wanting to distance herself from you. I do not know the circumstances and ONLY YOU would know that. I think I would just not reply and wait for her to come up with the reason why she seems to be avoiding you.. IF SHE really is attempting to avoid you>>>
2006-07-08 06:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family? Id store. Make up for anything in the past. She has already made the first move ..
She is trying to clear the situation. Its also up to you. Is life worth fighting?
2006-07-08 06:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is solve the misunderstanding, becuase a misunderstanding is rarely anyone's fault
2006-07-08 06:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by ironsstudenttroi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything else resolve your part in this "misunderstanding" first admit to yourself you were wrong regardless of whether you initiated the dificulty and then go forward with repairing this relationship.
2006-07-21 01:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she wanted to cut you off that she'd not even give you her new number. Perhaps she's trying to reach out to you but doing so subtly. You can take this opportunity to reach out to her too. Just a plain 'thanks...hope you're doing well' may suffice for now, till you figure out what to do next. but to ignore her message would be sending her a signal that you don't want to be in her life anymore. decide what you want to 'tell' her.
2006-07-08 06:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost me in the first two sentences. Maybe, that is why you cannot find her. You are CONFUSED! and you are confusing her too!! You are confusing me too!!
Good luck with that one!!
(is the girl his sister? his cousin? or his friend?) WOW!!
2006-07-21 13:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋