2006-07-08 06:24:41 · 24 answers · asked by ripsnate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now dont get me wrong i love looking at my girlfriend and being intimate with her but why should i stop looking lustfully at other woman? i would never cheat on her and i dont make comments about them either so why the scratch mark up the neck and face?
2006-07-08 06:31:54 · update #1
NO not at all now, since i get attention from males lol, But would you get jealous if she got attention from the opposite sex??????
2006-07-08 08:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by dreamyuk67 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband will point out a good looking woman or a nice bum (rear) & I'll say if I agree that she's a ten or an eight, I do the same to him.
I guess because we both feel secure and trust the other it has never been an issue more a joke between us
2006-07-08 13:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless he's being REALLY over the top and making crude comments. Not that he would, but that is when it would bother me.
It's ok to look as long as it's fairly discreet. After all it's natural to look at good looking members of the opposite sex, I do it. I don't even mind casual flirting. As long as both parties know the score.
2006-07-08 13:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nneave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl, and am in a serious relationship. i believe that men should be allowed to look, its in thier natures, and if you try to change this, they only feel resentment. thus, you are on here. now, im a little weird, and have never met another woman that shares this idea, but heres my opinion on my man and other women...
i love my man more than life itself, i would give anything to see him happy. i believe, that if theres something he needs that i cant give him, i want him to go get it somewhere else. i am not in this relationship because of sex, so it doesnt bother me if hes with other women. here are my rules: dont lie, dont tell her you love her, or that shes the only one, i dont want him to break someones heart. dont have sex without a condom, i give him this freedom with the understanding that he isnt to bring me home any nasty diseases. dont start treating me with less respect or stop f*cking me as often beacuse hes gitting it somewhere else. other than that its fair game.
2006-07-08 13:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by sslowbliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do to a certain point. I realize that guys are guys and if an attractive woman walks by he may look.. i think its natural. and i dont expect a guy to look away right away if he see's an attractive woman coming his way. But if a guy is going to look, keep it at a glance and not a stare
2006-07-08 13:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as youre subtle - dont oggle!. Your gf wants to be the ONLY sexual women in your life. It makes her feel special. Most likely your gf isnt looking at other men so she doesnt expect you to look at other women. Primarily because you are in a Relationship and she wants to be the only one you look at and adore.
Women view sex and love in one. Men can differentiate between love and sex. Therefore, you looking at other women may make your gf think that you love the other woman when you dont.
2006-07-08 14:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no probs with my hubby looking at other women either in the street, on telly but even better is when we watch porn together because then i get all the benefits of them turning him on
anyone who tells their man not to look needs to grow up because at the end of the day they are with u and u alone
and if us women were honest who doesnt like a bit of window shopping every now and then (as long as that all, and no purchases are made) no harm no foul
2006-07-08 14:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by ceaskew25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that we or i should say me get mad its just disrespectful to do it would you like it if your girl was slobbering all over a guy when shes walking with you NO so why do it.
its back to the if you dont want it to happen to you then dont do it to another.. think about it........ and if you have to be looking at someone els then ur not intersted in your partner as much as you think so you should just move on.... to someone who doesnt make you look the other way.
2006-07-08 13:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by BLISS IS MY HAPPYNESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it makes a woman feel she isnt good enough 4 u if u have to look somewheere else and yes i get mad, do u get mad if ur girl stares at another guy and u know shes thinking dirty???i think u would too, u have to look at it both sides, neither is right i believe if u are happy with her u should respect her
2006-07-08 14:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man doesnt look at other women.It wouldnt bother me if he did,its human nature.But there is a difference between window shopping and buying.Look but dont touch,thats the rule.never cross the line.Its not wrong to look.
2006-07-08 13:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont because I'm happy with who I am, and happy with my man. If he wants to look then why not? It's not wrong to look. the problems come with insecurity and low self esteem, not with the looking.
2006-07-08 15:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by honey lugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋