My wife and I are going to have a kid in september. We had split in Jan. before we knew she was pregnant, her thinking it best to split apart, and myself just wanting to agree with her to make her happy however she chose. Now my problem is I love the girl, shes 5200 miles away now and i dont want to let her go like that, but she still wants to because i had told her we SHOULD be apart at the beginning because its what she wanted, i know the boy is mine but what should i do?
2006-07-08 06:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by goku_trained_by_king_ki 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Go get her. Spill your guts and tell her everything you just told us.
If you really, really love her.... fight for her. There's nothing more sexy and romantic than a venerable man trying to win his woman back. While you're online right now..... go ahead and buy your airline ticket. Hurry! Good luck to ya!
2006-07-08 06:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Primrose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you can make it work with her, and can create a good environment for your baby, then tell her so, and make it happen. A good relationship between the parents is essential, and it takes a lot of compromise. Let her know that you are willing to see a counselor if necessary, because you feel that it would be best for the child, and that you really want to be with her, and you miss her. Then work very hard to make it happen.
Compromise means giving more than 50/50: sometimes you have to give 100% when your partner is having a bad day. If she is pregnant, she may have a bad day all the time, and you have to be willing to live through that with her. See her through this time, and you will have earned the right to be father to her child.
2006-07-08 13:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win her back, show her your love, make her feel like a princess. Do everything in your power to bring this woman and child back into your life. Whether you have to move closer to them, send flowers and poems, get on your hands and knees and beg let her know what a huge mistake you made. If she feels loved and special by you she will want you back. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-07-08 15:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone can change there mind. Tell her you wanna be a part of her life again and be there for the birth of your child. Even if you two can't make it work your gonna wanna be apart of your childs life and that means the two of you need to stay close. Good Luck
2006-07-08 13:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for the ones you love. If she moves, move to the same town as her. If you end up loosing the mother, the least you can do is make sure that you have a strong relationship with your son.
2006-07-08 13:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Who, me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart & if it takes ya 5200 miles to her then do it! Dont let it end if you love her & wanna raise your son as a family!!!
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2006-07-08 16:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by ?? misty ?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with her. Notice I said communicate and not talk.
Do you want to be with your child? If so, you two should talk and try to work things out with each other. If not, walk away.
No matter how much you love her, if she doesn't love you, she's not going to love you.
2006-07-08 13:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by shawonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go after her. If you love her then it doesn't matter how many mile are between you. If you love her and that baby the you will go after her.
2006-07-08 13:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how you feel. Don't just try to make her happy, especially if the end result is you being unhappy! Follow your heart!
2006-07-08 13:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you want to do!!If she wants you she will stay with you and hormones make us want to do everything by ourselfs . Be honest and tell her how you feel., and how you have felt.
2006-07-08 13:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋