Because we are hunters by nature.
You simply cant eat steak every day, to paraphrase the old addage....
And for you to ask yourself to be EVERYTHING to someone else is putting way too much pressure on yourself. Its unfair to you, and him.
Communication is the key. You have to be able to have an HONEST CONVERSATION, no matter how ugly the truth is.
Most people cant, mainly because of ego and vanity.
If you listen, you will find that most dont cheat because of anything else more than variety.....and sometimes boredom.
Women do it for a totally different reason (normally), but that a totally different question, isnt it?
2006-07-08 06:05:53
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answered by clockwork_oranje2002 3
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Men cheat because they have issues with themselves. It is just that simple. It is not the womans fault that his head is screwed up. Men who cheat usually don't have good relationships with their mother or see their mothers as weak. Or they have a dad that never taught them what is expected of a real man. They cheat because they are not trustworthy, mature or responsible enough to maintain and develop a relationship. They seek the temporary high of a new woman in their life and when sex is the only foundation of the relationship there is nothing to hold the relationship together. They are weak men who lack self-esteem and confidence in their own ablity to be a man. And the same for women who cheat. For the cheater, the fault is their own backwards thinking.
2006-07-12 00:06:55
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answered by intrigued 3
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Men cheat because there are so many stupid women out there accepting it. Men cheat and say they are sorry and the women take them back so they do it again and again. When women stop accepting it and men have to face consequences they will stop. I am so tired of hearing females say "men will be men " or "at least he comes home to me".
2006-07-08 13:06:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I have been cheated on by one man-my ex-but he cheated on me with nine other women.I didn't know-at the time I was working nights and he was working days.He always told me that he loved me,but he began to not show it anymore,and he would sleep on the couch everynight.I was wearing a engagement ring that he gave me,until one day-at night-I was off from work,and the phone rang-and it was one of his tramps,she told me-that he was living with his sister!!! SO to my surprise-to sum everything up-I was always the nice,kind,helping woman at home,but he didn't love me,and he wanted someone who would just drop their panties for him,like he WAS a god-NOT- I am not a slut-he didn't want me-he wanted a easy girl.So,if you have the little lady at home,why not go and get the tramp outside? I say because your a dirtbag and scum of the earth,some men will just break your heart for the fun of it.Men do not care about our feelings,not at all.
2006-07-08 13:14:46
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answered by snowtiger151 2
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Why do people cheet should be the question. And the answer alwys lies in teh fact that neither side is totally honest with what they want and therefor neither side really gets what they want. Both people are trying to put forth there best effort to give the perfect image but neither puts forth the same effort to give an honest view of themselves.
2006-07-08 13:14:22
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answered by Earl 2
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why do women cheat? I just ask this question th other day a lot of responses that made a lot of sense but they do it for no reason if we would just be honest from the beginning we would save alot of women heartache and get exactly what we want.
2006-07-08 13:10:31
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answered by djmsr26 2
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They cheat because they are selfish and wants to boost their egos. It has nothing to do with the woman who he cheats on. They do it to prove their manhood, collecting women is mostly a mans way of reassuring themselves that "they are the MAN!"
2006-07-08 13:06:42
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answered by Common_Sense2 6
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If you mean "why do men cheat", it's because they are DOGS.
2006-07-08 13:04:43
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answered by lcmcpa 7
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i think men cheats its bcoz there are men realy doesnt know yet what they realy want but there are men that cheats bcoz they can't get enough with one woman...
2006-07-08 13:04:04
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answered by mrs_budd05 2
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because they dont get what they need at home.if you dont want him to cheat then give it up at least once a day and act like you like it.if you cant do that for him i promise he will cheat on you.
2006-07-08 13:04:53
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answered by Anonymous
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