Mind this middle class man is loving, caring worships the ground you walk on.
This well off fellow buys you anything your little heart desires takes you out every now and then but you have an idea that he cheats on you regularly. PLEASE CHOOSE AND WHY
2006-07-08 05:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by djmsr26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheaters hurt you and make you cry. Will money make this easier to live with? NO.
Sounds like you are too involved with both of them. When you become this close, there should only be one man in your life. The loving caring one.
2006-07-08 06:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was all good with middle class income and being treated well but the cheating thing is ridiculous and it sounds like the stress of a middle class income is being used as an excuse to behave badly by breaking the trust of the marriage/relationship and destroying the very exclusivity of the (marital) relationship. Two people-one bond-end of story.
Personally, I stick with a person for love, compatibility, companionship and sometimes, when all those causes are too sorely tested......because I made a vow and I believe in it and I believe that a family should do their level best to be a family with an unbroken bond. That's my belief for myself. Economics are largely irrelevant, either to love or faithlessness.
Everybody carries a quantity of stress. The marker for acceptance of a person is not whether they do or not but how they handle it. Men with or without financial stress can still have negative behaviors and attributes (ie one is not more or less likely to cheat than the other based on financial health). The issue is not the income after all, then. It's whether or not the partner involved prefers the cheating kind or the faithful kind, period. Money is such a variable....fortunes can be lost and found in a day. The character of a person who cheats remains fairly consistent though. If money was the issue for the person concerned, I would suggest she/he go after that brass ring all on his/her own and then re-ask the question: is a cheating partner an acceptable option now that I've made it to a comfortable place on my own? I think the answer would be HELL no.
2006-07-08 13:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by badasslilnici 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently dating a loving man with middle class income. Coming from lower-middle class, I can understand the worries of financial situations. I don't need material items. Just his love.
2006-07-08 12:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by ddevilish_txnfml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would chose to have a loving man with a middle class income than to have a man with no financial stress bcoz its useless if yeah you dont have problems about money but there is no love that you can feel from your husband...material things are not important what matters is the love and the honesty for eachother...
2006-07-08 13:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_budd05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. The amount of money you have is irrelevant to women. Or rather a woman is not attracted to men based on money. Some skanky women go with men they have no attraction for so they can get access to his money.
But, what you describe as loving behavior from a man is the stuff most likely to cause them to be unattracted to you. Women already have a pussy. They don't need another one.
2006-07-08 12:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh, loving. What kinda q is that? Why is he buying me everything? It sounds like hus money, guilt money or just yeah. Money doesn't buy happiness. I don't care for money so much as long as he is loving. Ur a man? OKay then. Cuz it doesn't matter as long as he finished school, got a job and hopefully can be happy. He doesn't have to be a CEO or something. What common sense said. It depends on who is ur true love. But yeah, I'd prolly pick middle. I picked the middle" but nice guy.
2006-07-08 13:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle class man all the way!!!!!!! I have the financial guy who never spends time with me, but gives me money. Having a guy that loves and cares for you (although he isn't wealthy) is way more important than a guy that can only pay your bills and ignores you.
2006-07-08 13:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if you were in love with them. You should dump both and find your true love.With out that life sucks.
2006-07-08 12:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose to be loved alone and for myself unconditionally.
2006-07-08 13:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by tinks44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋