Ok the man I've been talkin with has recently ended a 5 yr relationship he says he is getting over so I said when you are complpetely over her we can begin our relationship till then we can build Am I wrong for making this request? then he asks me what am I willing to do to be with him (he lives in australia) and to make him happy but he has not said what he is willing to do to be with me he said I need to decide what I am willing to do for a guy like him and when I decide it will make him very happy..Why does it have to be what I am willing to do he is expecting me to make all the sacrifices just because she screwed him he expects me to be the one to do everything to make this work....When I mentioned he needs to let her go completly first because I know he still loves her he responded with fine thats it then and turned off his cell...Should I just let him go until he is ready or should I keep being the one making the sacrifices until he can let her go?
2006-07-08 05:02:47 · 5 answers · asked by shell b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is still speaking to her even tho she is now engaged to the man she cheated on him with but he says it is only till they got some things settled but I believed that once its over its over what is there to settle...
2006-07-08 05:04:09 · update #1
Let him go! Again, LET HIM GO! Don't even take his calls again. No contact AT ALL. If you get in a relationship with this man you'll lose all the way around. PLEASE DON'T DO IT.
2006-07-08 05:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not ready so don't start up with him.
He still has issues and it's not good to start up with someone who's just ended a relationship because they still carry things that will lapse into the new relationship. So tell him he needs to have her out of his mind and heart completely b 4 u make any kind of promises.
2006-07-08 05:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not...I repeat, DO NOT be bothered with this guy! He's not worth your sacrifices. He's still not over with his girl & will never will. Why must you make him happy but you're not happy yourself?
2006-07-08 05:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by countess_amalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't follow the excellent advice above IF you want to be manipulated big time. Any person who says what he's said is not well and you aren't either if you swallow his crap.
2006-07-08 05:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with honest.....
Move on and let it go.......
2006-07-08 05:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Groo The Wanderer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋