Let's say you are 38yrs of age you are with a 29yr old who just adores you. We have been together for 2yrs im not asking to get married been there done that but maybe move in together. I don't want to be the one to bring it up. What do i do?????
2006-07-08 04:59:55 · 18 answers · asked by gracie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 29 he is 38
2006-07-08 05:09:51 · update #1
While you are in bed on top of him,pop the question.
2006-07-08 05:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is ready to move in with the man, I would sit down during a casual dinner and discuss the next step in the relationship. Some of us guys like to wait until the woman gives us permission to do something.
2006-07-08 05:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the manipulative way; Let him know that for the sake of saving some extra income, you're considering taking on a roommate.. He will then take it from there.. It's manipulative, but so is your thought.. Or what I personally recommend.. Be honest.. Tell him how you feel and what's on your mind (it's mature, responsible and honest).. Women always talk about not enjoying head games, so don't play them.. Be honest.. If it's real, he'll respond, if not, then you won't be living in denial..
2006-07-08 05:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by lasvegasloaner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about moving in or another mutually agreeable step in the relationship, you've been together two years. If you don't bring it up, he probably won't either. I'm a 39 yr old man and I wouldn't have a problem if my woman brought it up. Just my 2 cents.
2006-07-08 05:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by RichK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suttle hints like wouldn't be cool if we got this place and shared expenses. Or it is such a pain to drive all the way over here when I spend most of my time here any way. Just suttle hints and I know your woman instincts know what to say
2006-07-08 05:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wrong to bring up the issue?
When 2 of you stay together, move your belongings (clothing...) slowly to his place and spend more days with him.
Slowly, 2 of you will stay wogether.
2006-07-08 05:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ho K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just suggest that it's kind of rediculous that you are spending so much money on renting/maintaining two homes when you could use the money saved for other things like entertainment etc. leave it at that though and let him make the next move if you wish.
2006-07-08 05:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you move in together that mean a commitment from both of you.after 2 years if he hasn't already asked you to move in, then break up with him and see how fast he makes his move to ask you to move in or dates your best friend. 38 and single he sounds like a loser
2006-07-08 05:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring it up. He won't be mad, the worst he could do is say "Nah its just not good for me right now" or something to that effect.
2006-07-08 05:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by bigsnowtoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw hints beat around the bush
2006-07-08 05:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋