my boy friend *** when having sex and i don't. what is wrong with me. why don't i ***? he want me to *** and i did not. he was mad at me.
2006-07-08 04:41:55 · 23 answers · asked by asgsj2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 25 i am not to young and he is 28.
2006-07-08 04:46:16 · update #1
he c u m and i don't he there some thing wrong with me
2006-07-08 04:47:38 · update #2
a guy is gonna ccum like everytime but a girl is lucky if she does our bodies r different so u need to figure out what he can do to u that will let u have ur orgasms
and he dont need to be mad at u tell him to be mad at himself cuz he obviously isnt putting enough effort into it.....
2006-07-08 04:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women do not have an orgasm during sex. They need to be manually stimulated, meaning using the fingers or tongue to stimulate the clitoris. Some women need more than sex alone to be able to climax. If your man doesn't understand that then kick him to the curb and find someone who is more concerned about your needs than his bruised ego.
2006-07-08 11:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men it like rolling a rock down a hill, all you have to do is get the stone moving in the right direction. For women it's like trying to roll a rock up the hill. One bad move and the rock rolls back down the hill and you have to start again. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BF DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE'S DOING. Let me correct that, he doesn't know what he's doing or this wouldn't be a problem. Give him a little guidance/direction.
2006-07-08 11:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound too young to be doing that.
**update**
He needs to slow down and let you led for a while. You should tell what makes you feel good and get him to do that first before he ***s. Women take longer, thats a fact. So they should start sooner with the pleasure. Or you could get yourself to that point, then let him in.
2006-07-08 11:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean have an orgasm? Anyone who is not mature enough to type in the word "orgasm" --- or ***, or moan, or fart, or whatever *** means --- is not mature enough to be having sex. (I don't care how old you are.)
And whatever *** means, your boyfriend should not be mad at you for not doing it. Both of you are having sex. That mean's it both of your problem.
2006-07-08 11:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by jered_gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you. He may not know how to work it right. Do you enjoy sex with him? He can't find you G spot or reach it. Try diffrent positions. Pick up some books on the subject. They are at the library. Reading is fundamental.
2006-07-08 11:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he can't last long enough, you must be young, but there is more than likely nothing wrong with you, woman take longer to climax ,maybe you and your boyfriend should try some longer foreplay before you have sex, maybe some longer oral sex or something like that, now he only gets mad because it hurts his ego
2006-07-08 11:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal...it's a lot harder for women than men. Take a look at some of the webMD/relationship info sites - better yet, take a look at them with *him* He shouldn't be getting mad at you...he should be doing his best to help you...
2006-07-08 11:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talking about c u m. Some doesn’t c u m easily. It’s natural. I guess or maybe you haven’t found the sexual drive or excitement. try doing something that really turn you on with him
2006-07-08 11:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ceon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make you have an orgasm is his job not yours. If it depended on you, all you would need is your fingures or a vibrator with a fruitful imagination. Tell him he has to give it to you like a man. If he can't turn you on, then the problem is not with you but with him.
2006-07-08 11:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋