I'm really attracted to this man, and I know he is to me, too. We hooked up before, and I was forward with what I wanted. He didn't want a relationship with me then (though he stated he was looking), and I broke it off when he "backed off out of respect" and stopped returning my calls. A month later, he contacted me, but we didn't meet up. I was so angry for him contacting me and not going through with it. I chewed him out on his vm, and went on with my life. A month later, I was unbelievably horny and wanted to see him again, so I contacted him. We ended up hooking up & he was all over me, & so happy to see me. I've only text msgd & fwd emailed once in 3 weeks (not @ sex-- he replied both times ). He did immediately respond when I contacted him (a 1st), but has not initiated contact with me at all. He's a wealthy, hot player who's used to getting his way, and I'm considered a very sexy flight attendant. Am I just a booty call to him, or is there hope for us to really date?
2006-07-08 04:33:45 · 14 answers · asked by honeyangelwings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just a booty call. Start a relationship on the right foot. Most of the time, If you sleep with a man too soon then he's gonna be thinking all this is a hook up. Play a little hard to get. Don't chase him, let him chase you unless you're sure that all you want is a booty call.
2006-07-08 04:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Gia S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change a man regardless of how you feel about him and the way you put yourself out is how he will look at you. a first impression of a person will always be the last in the end. if you really wanted a relationship with this guy that is how you should have approached him in the beginning because all he is going to be able to look at you is what you have been a booty call. If you really and truly believe that there is something there that could grow into to a relationship although I doubt it than you need to be forward and ask him straight out if he is the person you described him to be than I am sure he will be honest with you GOOD LUCK !!!!
2006-07-08 04:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by aprilrayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, unfortunately, you have earned his respect falsely. My opinion is that he didn't respect you when YOU didn't respect you, and then when he "backed off out of respect", and stopped returning your calls, he was blowing you off. I've been that player, and I've been the guy who'd say anything to get back into your bed, and then say anything again to remain aloof. Remember, he told you he was looking, but didn't want a relationship with you. Basically, he said "Sorry, you're not good enough for girlfriend, just a booty call". How could you ever respect yourself if you ended up with him now? He's pretty much told you you're not the one to bring home to mom. That never changes in a man.
Respect yourself first, even if you do have sex early in the relationship, you need to find a man who wants you to be his girlfriend FIRST, then wants your booty because you ARE so hot.
Guys and girls out there, I broke the habit. I found the girl for me, and I never thought I could. One good question I had to ask myself is this: If I make love to her, would I ever need to have sex with someone else again? If the answer is yes, you aren't respecting her as a future mate, only a playmate. Folks, make yourself that person, that one great catch that shouldn't be lost.
luv and kisses...dagrmast
2006-07-08 04:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dagrmast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't really start things out on the right foot. Tell him that. Say you realize that you'd like to get to know him better as a person, work it from there. Whats the worst that can happen? He'll say no. If he says no- F him, why get caught up in some player when there are plenty of nice guys out there that can treat you better. But first off, ask yourself :Are you attracted to him because of his personality and the way he makes you feel when he is around? It doesn't seem like you have had that much of a chance to really get to know him. So could it be you like the money, his looks, and the thrill of the chase, being the girl to make the player "commit"? When you have that figured out, make your move.
2006-07-08 04:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by tinks44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call is a time period invented to "empower" females, yet in reality it purely potential getting screwed (actually and figuratively). positive a relationship can improve. And who better ideal for an added than 2 those who take love and sex so gently?
2016-11-30 21:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexy flight attendant like you say you can find someone that will want you for more than a booty call
2006-07-08 04:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO way that you are going to get a relationship out of him as long as you make yourself "available". You need to make him feel like you don't need him. Once you do that "IF" he is interested like you said then he will come back to you; if he isn't interested like you think and he doesn't come back when take it as a learning experience and move on.
2006-07-08 04:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that he will settle down when he wants to. However I wouldn't wait if I were you, I'm basically in the same situation (different jobs) and I waited and I'm still single. You can't make a man settle.
2006-07-08 04:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by jess14741 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you , and you deserve better he is probably married so dump him and find someone else cause if you just want sex any guy in any bar can give you that.if you want a relationship always remember any guy that really wants to be with you will want to alter his life to make you happy, hope this helps
2006-07-08 04:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to quit giving yourself to him. Ever heard the old saying,why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
2006-07-08 04:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋