2006-07-08 04:26:17 · 9 answers · asked by Cartman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
can you belive that im only 20 yrs old and i had to bury my only baby she was only 4 1/2 months old when she died
2006-07-08 04:31:49 · update #1
...Yes. It is one of the most painful experiences you will have in life. However, there are now many groups out there that help families deal with this loss. Talking to others who have been through it, or understand it, is an important part of the grieving process. Find a group or therapist to help you. Don't try to do it alone. And don't try to anesthetize the pain with alcohol or drugs (legal or illegal). It only prolongs the process.
When people approach you and want to discuss your child's death, remember that most of them want to help but many just don't know what to say. If you feel like talking about it with them, do. If you don't feel like talking about it with them, don't.
I wish you peace.
2006-07-08 04:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my mom had her first son, she was in a group home and they only let her see him like three times and them she found out he died. He was only a few months old. That was 18 years ago and she still lights a candle for him on his birthday and for big holidays.
2006-07-08 11:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Alana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so very sorry my prayers are with you, no but im not sure i understand the question -------do you need ways to cope ======i think the pain of losing anyone close doesn't go away only gets fainter as time goes on===how did you lose your child --that question is important to answer----there are many resourses out there to help you deal with your loss good luck--
2006-07-08 11:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by wendy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.my mom was 21 when my older sister died at only 10 days old because the nurse took her sweet time to get to my moms room when she went into labor and she dropped and crimped her cord and was born brain dead. but if that never happened i wouldn't be here because my mom got pregnant a month later with me. but its still pretty sad
2006-07-08 16:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by bellamuert3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that happened to you.
I have never experienced the loss of a child and am sorry you did. My prayers are with you honey.
2006-07-08 11:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, my little brother died an infant
2006-07-08 11:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by confetticupcakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss.
2006-07-08 11:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this happened.
2006-07-08 11:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry.
2006-07-08 11:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by backlash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋