Can somebody givame some advice??

Question

I am 14 years old and I have 2 kid a 1 1/2 year old daughter and im 5 1/2 mths pregnant now.My boyfriend is 16 years old and he has this older brother he is about 18 and he likes to come over the house when my boyfriend is not there.One day he came over when I was getting out the shower and made me have sex with him and I didnt tell my boyfriend because I knew he wasnt going to believe me and he was going to start hitting me.What should I do??

I dont live with my parents I live with him.

Answer 1

whoa honey you are very young... first of all you should of told his brother NO then if you told his brother NO it is considered rape... also his brother is 18 and legal you are still illegal so he can get into alot of trouble..

Secondly why in the world are you with someone that hits you do you not value yourself... you have to stand up for yourself and leave go to a relatives house or a good friends house but just leave yo u never know when he can get so upset and send you or your kids to the hospital...

Finally if you would not be off having sex this would of never happen to you... you are too young to be going through all of this and unfortionatly you have the last world

Answer 2

You shouldn't be raising a child in a home with this kind of activity going on. First issue is, where are your parents and why did they let you leave at 14? Second issue is why are you staying with someone who hits you? Do you think this is a good for you or your child? Next issue is if this guy forced you to have sex with him then you should report him. If he did it to you he will do it to someone else as well, he needs to have charges put against him. Go back to you parents house. If for some reason you don't feel safe there, or you feel like this is not going to solve the problem, there are places that take in pregnant women, and it will be a safe place for you and your child. You need to get some help, for you and your childrens sake.

Answer 3

You are a child having children!!!
How can anyone ever tell you what to do in this situation when you still have no idea between the difference of sex and love?
STOP having children- you are only wrecking their lives, for when they are 15 you will be 30 and will have realised how pathetic your youth has been --- how misguided you were about love.
To stop being raped you must lock the door. And to tell your boyfriend about his brother, you should do it when they are both present and get your family (if you have any) or friends to stand by you.
And, if your silly little boyfriend is hitting you- call the police- it is called ABUSE and you do not have to tolerate it.
And please, for your own good, use some kind of contraceptive- ask your doctor when you have your second child. You are not a rabbit and do not need to reproduce as one!
Oh, and if you are bored, to stop thinking about sex, you should read a little.

Answer 4

Do you have anyone supporting you other than your boyfriend? Because if he is hitting you, or you are afraid of him doing that, you could be putting your child and unborn child in danger, as well as yourself. Where are your parents, are they involved at all? Are you emancipated? Because you are awfully young to be doing this all on your own.

If someone "makes you" have sex with them, they are raping you, and it is not your fault.

I would suggest going to a rape crisis center, a domestic violence shelter, or even just another friend or family member who is supportive and can help you through this. I would also suggest using birth control in the future. You already have your hands full!

Answer 5

You could get these two guys in world of trouble! First of all, How did this guy just come in while you were in the shower? Maybe you should lock the door. But secondly. If your bf is hitting you, you should call the police and get away from him. That is no example for your children

Answer 6

I'm not one to judge you about that, I'm 15 and know what you're going through, no, I don't have kids... All I can say for now is have faith. You may be going through a tough time right now, but for the fact that you kept both, I respect you for that, if your boyfriend starts hitting you, what is he doing or going to do to your kids? Think about it for a minute, if your bf didn't believe you for telling him in the first place, he's not worth it!!! give the bf and the brother a cup of 'f*ck you' and tell them to drink it slow...

Further more, all I can say now is good luck. I know it's not easy, But don't let people judge you or let you down, what you did is what you wanted to, but now would be a good time to start thinking about consequinces...

;-)

Answer 7

The first thing you need to do is call the police. That's called statutory rape. The second thing you need to do is seriously look into birth control. At 14 you should not even be sexually active, let alone carrying your second child. The third thing you need to do is seek counseling. At your age you are going to need all the help you can get if you and your children are going to have any chance at normal healthy productive lives. God Bless.

Answer 8

Get out of there! At all costs, no one deserves to be hit! There are plenty of shelters out there for women if they have no where else to go. Think of your children, and how this will affect them. They don't deserve this kind of thing. And DON'T let the brother back in! Pretend u r not home! You will be no good to your kids if u r dead!

Answer 9

This is a very sad story. Where are your parents? They should be reported to Child Welfare Services. You have been raped and your children are the results of child rape. Do you know anything about birth control? Please get help. You are bringing innocent children into the world who have little or no chance of a normal life.

Answer 10

u should go to the police right away then u should go home to ur parents or move in wit someone who doesnt treat u like they do and quit havin sex after the first kid u would think u know how that happen