I've been seperated from elena about little over month...I cant seem to forget her or drown her out...and i cant seem to find my inner peace....I've been keep myself busy, but still.. I kept thinking about her. i called her few days ago, she didnt pick up my call and after little while she send me a text saying, "I cant never figure out about u, one day ur nice and next day ur not, plus u lied to me" I reply with asking her "liying to u?" she never reply me back....sooo I called her few days later, she still didnt pick up the phone.... and she text me back, she is in bit of situation and she doesnt want talk to me and take it out of me.....what do u think????
2006-07-08 03:34:49 · 13 answers · asked by monopoly_cc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to talk to her sincerely.. obviously you two have something to settle first before you can finallly move on with your life. You cannot find inner peace if you have unfinished business with someone. . hope this works. Goodluck to you. Im in the same situation with you and its really hard.
2006-07-08 03:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by --gWynEtH-- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to move on without her, hard as it may be. She's obviously over you and wants nothing to do with you.
It's best just to learn from your mistakes, carry a part of her in your heart and find someone who will truly love you.
It appears she's being mean to you and you don't deserve that. Do you really want someone who will treat you like crap?
I know it's hard moving on, but believe me, time heals all wounds, just like the saying goes!
If you've kept busy, you are on the right track. Go out with friends MORE - that will help ease the pain. I don't know how old you are, but you might even try some counseling. After my divorce, that's the best thing I could have done. Counseling can help you find solutions to your problems!
Good luck Honey! I'll say a prayer for you!
2006-07-08 03:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, it doesn't sound to me like you WANT to get rid of her, as your question states. You are the one who's calling all the time. You obviously still have feelings for Elena. From what she's saying/texting to you, I'd say she's basically over you but still might want to be your friend. If that's enough for you, then just wait and let her contact you. If that's NOT enough, then break it off altogether and move on with your life.
2006-07-08 03:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you should try to hang out with your friends all of teh time. there is a saying the best way to get over somebody is to get under some body...if that works for you either way should help some. but mostly it will just take time and patience, there will be nights where you miss her and you will be sad but there will be days where you think you are just fine without her...time will tell
2006-07-08 03:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a learning experience in what you just wrote, take this in stride and remember the good times... take that with you for the woman you are meant to find, relationships are not meant to last they are for learning only...love, true love lasts forever because when you find her she will not be able to think of nothing but you all day long, I think about my husband all day and smile to my self... I feel very lucky to have met him-- I waited nineteen years to meet him. went through many tough and some times bad relationships, all of them were preparing me for him!!
2006-07-08 03:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man.........i suggest u that dont walk on the path that have no destination..........well if u dont wanna take my first advice then go to her home, talk 2 her,and never stop talking 2 a person after fighting with her b,cos it closes all the doors for negotioation......
2006-07-08 03:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by red_angel_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she still has feelings for you and doesn't understand how to express her feeling properly yet...But then again i think the same as you.....If i was separated from the woman that has my heart i would defiantly do something about it...and not sit by and let the world pass me by.......Passion and love is the secret to life...don't let anyone tell you different.....risk it all and tell her your true feelings and do whatever it takes to get that happiness you desire
2006-07-08 03:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by chalpin07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look.
there is no way to "get over" somebody. if you love them, you love them. there's no way to change that...
all you'll do is cause yourself pain.
what you should do, is tell her how you feel.
k?
it'll cause something to happen...
and I can see, sorry as you didn't say what why you two broke up, I have made the assumption that you are the reason, yes... silly of me, but still..
that you want her back...
so bloody well tell her!
2006-07-08 03:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just divert your mind to someother activity r fall in love with someone else
2006-07-08 03:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by manuj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is seeing someone else but, keeping you on a string.
2006-07-08 03:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋