2006-07-08 02:51:59 · 18 answers · asked by deemark 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have been thinking about this lately. My mother's neighbor passed away and she took it pretty hard. Even though she did'nt know her that well. Some people are just more emotional about it than others.
2006-07-08 02:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some People Have Ahard Time Realizing That Death Is Part Of Life,Not Wanting To Accept Reality,Its Nothing To Worry About,When A Friend Or Loved One Passes They Do Not Go Far Away,The Next Life Is Easier Than This One,The Biological Form We Are In Now Is Very Restrictive Transition Is Necessary And Required
2006-07-08 10:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly one need to ask: what is death.
Ye, I know, the loved one is gone.. but why do we miss that person, what did that person represented??
The answer is very simple.
COMMUNICATION.
The reason why some people miss more than others? They miss that communication and interaction with the human being who is gone.. Communication has many aspects: touch, even smell, voice, the way made you feel.. everything. It also depends how did they rely on the communication.
When the person is gone, suddenly the person who misses: has an empty hole exactly where before it was fulfilled, some have bigger hole, some have smalled hole. That hole sometimes it take longer to fill sometimes shorter.
Some people go to an extend to go and ask 'witches' or future readers, to speak to ghost, etc.. just to have that small about of communication...
Hope it helped.
ps. And it is not really who is strong personality or not.. I had a Director who was strong.. and within two weeks his wife died.. It totally broke his heart, this man was NEVER the same again. He was lost and no one was able to help him. He misses that communication wit his wife, she was providing him: fullfilling him his needs and he just did not want anything else after that. How Sad.....
2006-07-08 09:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Desert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure which way you mean that. Sometimes it feels like the death of someone just rips a huge part of your heart out. I guess it depends on how close you are to the person who died. When they're gone too suddenly it's very hard to deal with. In my line of work, I've seen a lot of people die and some go peacefully while others fight tooth and nail. It looks like it reveals what they think is on the other side. And then, we all die, so I guess it affects us all equally. Hope I've hit somewhere close to what you're asking.
2006-07-08 10:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by novalee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people are emotionally stronger than others
& if they are very close to someone ( especially family)
its much harder for a person who has a lot of love and
compassion in their heart. But for the person who is saved, they won't fear death, because their trust is in the
Lord & they know they have a home to go to.
2006-07-10 19:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by TinaE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every human being is very unique, includin their neurological functions. From the start of their life the human mind undergoes continuous changes and adaptations to their surroundings. Someone who has dealt with death before will react differently than someone who has never seen a dead body before. There is no mind alike, so one brain will react differently to an environmental change differently than another. One may refer death to hate because someone close to them was murdered, or because of all the hate crimes they see on TV. So perhaps when their mother dies, they subconciously think she died because of hate, or they feel hate because she died. There are a billion different contibutions to a person's reactions to anything in life.
2006-07-08 10:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will react and grieve differently. It's the people who DON'T show their emotions that will be affected by the death more believe it or not as they aren't really "dealing" with it. But they will sooner or later.
2006-07-08 09:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does anything impact some people harder than others? Different personalities. Different experiences. Different sensitivities.
2006-07-08 09:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know where you and your family and friends are going when you all die, because you all accepted Jesus as your savior, as the one who died on the cross for your sins, death is a joyous occasion. But if you or a loved one or friend died lost and never knew Jesus, and they were not a Christian, then that is a time for great sadness.
If everyone knew through salvation that they were going to heaven, because salvation and acceptance of Jesus as your savior is the only way to heaven, they would know that they would see their passed on loved ones or friends again. That this separation by death is only temporary.
If you are lost and do not have Jesus in your life, accept Jesus as your savior today by admitting to Him that you are a sinner, and ask Him for His forgivness, and confess to Jesus that you know Him to be the one who took your place on the cross at calvery, and you shall be born again by the blood of Jesus.
John 3:16-18
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
Know that Jesus is returning in our life time. Ready or not. I pray that you are among those that are ready.
God bless you
carol
2006-07-08 10:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Carol M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death appears to affect all people equally...
2006-07-08 09:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by XYZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋