2006-07-08 02:34:00 · 13 answers · asked by Rhonda D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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WHAT DOES IT MEAN HE HASN'T TOLD YOU HE LOVES YOU?
2006-07-08 02:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by prosperous_lunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to date a guy if u r 30 and he is 48 but what do u mean by he hasn't told u he luvs u in the past one year why r u living with him?
2006-07-08 02:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say it's wrong to date someone older (or younger). It depends on your common interests, respect for one another, future plans, etc.
I've always dated younger men! LOL
But recently, I've just found the "true love" of my life and am very happy. Turns out, he's my age - go figure! LOL
But, I DO have concern if your mate isn't saying I love you yet! How long have you been together? There is a chance that he could be using you or has a different view on your relationship.
I would make a list of the pros/cons of your relationship and go from there. Are you TRULY "happy" with this guy?
Remember . . . YOU have to be happy within yourself before you can have a decent relationship. A man cannot make you happy. Your partner COMPLETES your happiness!
Good luck!
2006-07-08 02:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should avoid anymore than a 10 year difference. 48 and 30 is fine, but imagine 68 and 50.... or 60 and 78. You're not going to be happy.
2006-07-08 02:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the part that's wrong is that you are in a relationship that is not mutually rewarding to you. If you are living with this man that is wayyyy beyond "dating" and there should be love involved... otherwise you're just roommates, right? Ask yourself if you're willing to spend your best years involved in a relationship in which your man is taking advantage of all you have to offer without offering anything in return. The fact that you were concerned enough to ask this question should tell you a lot... good luck!
2006-07-08 02:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age thing isnt a factor at this point. After living together for one year, I assume youre in a relationship and he's not a roommate, and he hasnt said I love you something is definetly wrong with this picture. Only you can decide what to do and what you're willing to accept.
2006-07-08 02:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word love (just as hate) is a very heavy word and carries ALOT of responsibility. The only ones I say it to now is my children.
As long as he shows he loves you, don't worry so much about what he doesn't say.
As far as his 48 to your 30? Age is nothing more than a #. My ex showed me that. Age doesn't mean squat to your heart.
2006-07-08 02:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It is not wrong. But a few questions....Do you love him? or is it a convience thing? There could be several reasons he hasn't said ILU. Maybe he does but is afraid of commitmant.....maybe you are just a piece of *** for him.....I think that it all comes down to one thing.....you know if he loves you. He will show it in little things. The stuff he does for you like opening the door, or saying how beautiful you are. maybe he is saying it but not with words.......
2006-07-08 02:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by fixurheat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with another poster. If he hasn't indicated that he loves you, and hasn't approached you with getting married, then he's just using you to fill his needs. Ask him what the future holds, and if you think you want to be married, tell him so, but be ready for the worst.
2006-07-08 02:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by ceprn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age is not an issue as long you are in sync.re; equally active, same intrests, mentality.
Do you feel loved by him?
Have you said it to him?
2006-07-08 02:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by Marla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋