I have a crush this boy I've had a crush for 2 years but I've still no courage to tell him.?

Question

Telling him I love him will be a disaster

Answer 1

If you do not tell him you will regret it that happened to me and when i finally summed up the courage to tell him it worked fine and turned out he liked me to. But how would you ever know if you don't tell him thats why life is about taking chances girl.
Just tell him how you feel and the truth will reveal itself in time.

Answer 2

Hey I'm a guy so I should know what to do.Just go up and ask him face to face will you go out with me.He'll like you more because of your courage.What's the worse that could happen?He say's no.Then you just move on.Or if you can't do that then try writing a note and slipping it in his locker.He won't respect your courage as much but it saves the embarressment.Oh and if he shows the note to his friends and starts laughing the answer is no.Trust me.I've tried a note automatic rejection when they start laughing.I was the laughing stock of the school that day and had to hide but it wasn't really that bad knowing that you at least tried.

Answer 3

For me, it relies upon. If the guy i'm crushing on is a chum or acquaintance I have a tendency to love them for longer sessions of time. yet when i have under no circumstances quite talked to him, then i'd only like him for some days, or per chance a month on the longest. The longest i have ever loved someone became a 365 days and a 0.5, and he became an effective chum of mine (and nevertheless is, yet I under no circumstances get to ascertain him anymore). today i have been liking my ideal chum for 5 months and he may like me decrease back yet i'm no longer positive... =/

Answer 4

I understand you're problem completely. My advice is just try to be friends with this boy and be nice. Maybe your friendship will eventually evolve into something that you're thinking of down the road. Maybe even he will have the courage to tell you first. Then, once you're better friends maybe you will have the courage to tell him. Good luck. I hope it works out for the better.

Answer 5

I think tell him to his face... is a the direct approach. If you can not do that, maybe telling a friend of yours... that you are interested in him. I said interested in him to get to know him. That way she may tell him or a friend of his. Then if you see him in the halls or somewhere he will know you are interested in him. Then it will be his move, you can take it from there. Say hi, how are you... whats up.... these are good ice breakers.

But a word of caution. FOR NOW DON'T TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM. Not until you have a good relationship with him. It is in your mind that you love him. You need to see more of him and get to know him, how he treats you as a person, before you can say you love him.

good luck

Answer 6

Sometimes you just have to tell him, just to make life easier on yourself :) That puts the ball in his court. If he's interested, he'll do soemthing about it. If he is not, he'll pretend you never said anything. Either way, you can figure out where you stand and move on.

There are plenty of boys out there. If this one isn't the right one for you, maybe the next one will be.

Answer 7

You know what, assess why you think you like this boy do you really like him? Could you suffer embarassment for him? If you think you can anwer positive to tis questions then try to make him recognise your existence. If you leave in the same area then try to enter the same shop as him or if you go to the same school try to do something extraordinary and say hello and hi when you pass him. Also get his email address and xpress yourself. Also get him something on his birhday that looks very romantic. WISH YOU LUCK.

Answer 8

you don't love him
you like him
the way he looks maybe?
just try to be a pal you do not love him

Answer 9

GIRL YOU NEED TO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL IF YOU DON'T IT WILL BE 4 MORE YRS.

Answer 10

i have the sane problem except i have told him he ignores me and its been way longer than that..