I'm really just wondering, but I want to know.
2006-07-08 02:15:09 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Intelligence, humor, thoughtfulness, understanding... be a good friend too... be cute, you don't have to be "gorgeous" but take care of yourself. Be proud of your appearance... don't look like you just rolled out of bed. Be yourself, but also be respectful of the woman you are with. Hold her hand in front of your friends, even if they give you a hard time.
2006-07-08 02:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most important: HONESTY!!!!! This seems to be the hardest trait for me to find. It amazes me how many guys outright lie (usually about something dumb) and think the girls are falling for it. Maybe they don't know how stupid they are. I thought I had an honest one but watch him lie to people daily about the silliest things. I have had enough of the lies and am leaving next week. I already told him. He's begging me to stay but I just want out. HONESTY!!! Yes, he also cheated about 10 years ago and I caught him with her. He is still denying that even though I saw it. What a guy, even has himself convinced of most of what he says. Why am I still here? Good question! Not for much longer, had enough of the lies.
2006-07-08 09:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when most girls first go for a guy, they go for is cute or not and then as they get going they have things that they like and dislike....i like funy, nice, dependable, sweet, respects me, ect...but most importantly is he a christian...most people find that stupid....but if he is a christian most likely he won't be into other negative qualities like the enjoyment of getting drunk ALL THE TIME, don't get me wrong...it is o.k. to have a drink but the consent drunkness??....
Anyways I guess this is the order of what i look for:
1. cute? 2. Christian? 3. Respects me? 4.Nice? 5. Sweet? 6. Dependable 7.Does he have te negative qualities that r a big no no on my list? * and it keeps going on...
2006-07-10 19:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main traits are athletic, smart, nice, and funny. probably the main trait is to be nice 'cause u know we wouldnt want to go out with a mean guy obviously.
2006-07-08 09:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by surfer girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls would say personality or huomr but the truth apperance if u see a girl on the street ur not going to walk up to her and say hi because she has good humor of u like her personality its because u like the way she looks................so im gonna say apperance.............and no im not shallow
2006-07-08 09:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has to take good care of himself. No one wants to date a slob. Nice teeth (flossing is important!) and not too jealous. Good sense of humor, willing to cook. Crap, I feel like I'm putting an ad out...lol.
2006-07-08 09:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence is number one. Truthfulness is number two. How he treats his mother, sister and exwife or girlfriend and the waitress in the restaurant is number three
2006-07-08 09:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by sunchile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love affection looks skill smartness...n no matter who says wot his ability to b able to buy u expensive stuff n treat u like a princess is definitely important...
2006-07-08 09:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has to be really nice and sweet i don't want a guy that has no idea how to treat a girl
2006-07-08 14:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence, sense of humor.....and honesty if you can't be honest about who you are and what you are all about then obviously you are quite unhappy with your true being..so be gone)
2006-07-08 09:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋