is it ok to ask some female strait for sex as i hate lying or flirt
2006-07-08 01:14:38 · 13 answers · asked by sandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, that isn't ok. Be a gentleman and spend time with the girl if you think she's worth it. We think differently then men, and don't consider this "cool."
Sounds like you've been hurt somehow by lying and flirting, you might want to dig alittle deeper and get this taken care of, so you can have a normal, fun, light, relationship with someone, in other words get it worked out, so you don't take "baggage" into your relationships. It isn't fair to the girl for you to just meet her, and already not trust her and be watching her every move for flirting, or thinking she's lying to you. Someone must have really hurt you, but you must get over it and be able to go on and have some fun! Lighten up! lol
2006-07-08 01:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends actually
If you've got a girl that flirts a lot, isn't shy and is VERY into you, then yes
But if not, I'm afraid not.
You can always ask her by just kissing her or squeezing her hand instead of telling her by saying it.
If she likes it then it will soon progress to sex
If not then you should stop if you don't want the relationship to end.
So basically, the best way is actually to start kissing her GENTLY without saying anything
2006-07-08 01:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's something you can't just jump into. the girl would think that's all you want and that you did not like them at all. it would send the wrong message. if you really like someone, go slower and work up to a possible sex time. do not hurt people's feelings by pushing them. if all you want is sex and you do not care about the person, then find a nasty girl who does that for you. use protection. but really ,you should be nicer and safer in your life. I can understand the need for sex, but you have to be nice to people and consider your self too. there are diseases out there that will ruin your life. if you get pushy about sex, people will label you as a pervert so think first and be careful. good luck.
2006-07-08 01:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should LOVE to flirt even in a long term relationship...thats what keeps it alive. But since that isn't yr question... It depends on the women and if you know her. Sometimes thats all there looking for to. give it a try if you get slapped you'll know!
2006-07-08 01:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but don't expect a positive response. If you want to win a girls affections you have to put in the effort!!!.........if you are just after sex then go to a brothel and hire a pro, I hear they don't mind if you don't flirt and ask them straight....
2006-07-08 01:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, but she might have a guy around the corner waiting to kick your azz if you dont give him some money first..
2006-07-08 01:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by jenisisgrafix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-08 01:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might get smacked if you approach directly.
2006-07-08 01:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Mr. sandy u'r gone madd. And if u hate this kind of thinks then why r u asking guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 01:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could but you are going to get slapped or somehthing.
2006-07-08 01:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋