what would be your action / reaction if.......?

Question

your wife doesnt obay you, doesn't respect you, never feels like to live with you, money minded, needs husband to fulfill the sexual desires only and for the name sake (to say to people "yes I'm living with husband"),
never feels sorry of her faults, sin, worst behaviour,
always boastful, wanted to live with her parents and considers thier affaires, their wealth and at the same time never likes you to support your parents or your family members,
if asked for openion for divorce not willing
not at all God fearing (premarriage period she was speaking in tounges????)Materialistic, never bothers about anybody..
Please understand that this are not just arrogant accusations but suffering with this women for 8 years..

lazy, always sleepy

Dear believers is any one their to give me your side of action as a good believer...

Answer 1

How did you end up with that kind of creature?
The fact that you have been suffering with someone is good enough reason to leave, for both yours and her sake. Eight years is a long period, and if during all that time there was no improvement, rather things were getting worse, I do not quite understand how can you have any doubts about what you should do...
But, what ever you may decide, it is very important for you to discover what is it about yourself that made you marry such a person - all the character traits that you've mentioned could not have been hidden, so what were you doing with such a woman on the first place? If you do not get clear picture about this, you might make similar mistake in the future, with some other person.
Good luck

Answer 2

The double favourite is what has a tendency to harass people. What about the cartoons lambasting Christianity and Jews? Oh accurate, those are nice as they're finished by using Arabs. you may want to assert that the Danish cartoons were "an equivalent and opposite" reaction to those. The protesters cry "lack of existence to ". once the protesters study a thanks to protest in a civilised way, then some effects will be received. Plus, no united states submits to terrorist techniques. it will be truly stupid to finish that.

Answer 3

Was she like this when you courted her? I am Catholic so I don't believe in divorce if this is a true sacramental marriage. I would say separation is a good choice if this is true but I would say look at your own behavior first. May times when one wishes to change their partner the first person they need to change is their selves. There is a book called, "The Power of a Praying Husband."

Answer 4

The scriptures reveal that you are not the first to suffer thus. Remember adam and eve? She came from his rib, meaning you should walk side by side, not subservant to him. Rememer she gave into the devil and tempted him, he gave into her. Thus both submitted to satan. Both were wrong, however if they had stayed true to God all would be well today. Actions have consiquences, you married her and now have a burden to bare . There is hope for both of you. Go to www.ucg.org...Read, learn, Godbless.

Answer 5

If you can examine your conscience and truly say that you have tried your best with this woman and she won't change then you should cut your losses and move on. God doesn't want you to waste the precious life he gave you.

Answer 6

i think that...everything you say...except the part where you want your wife to obey you...is a good cause for concern...maybe instead of divorce, try marriage counseling first...

good luck, and sorry if i didn't help because i'm not a "spiritual" person...

Answer 7

I am sure you are little too imaginative than reality, yeat with all these, around i will pray to JESUS to give me patience, and pray for the person you have mentioned in the question. personly forgive her.

Answer 8

but you love her........no?
but she beautiful ......no?
but the children.........no?

just say that she marry your money(mammon) and the prist will diforce you