I was close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. This was about 2 weeks ago. Over the course of the last 2 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled intimately alot. She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. We go out for dinner alot! She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours each day.
She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by previous boyfriends many times and not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again.
What does this mean? Does she even like me? What should I do?
2006-07-08 00:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by PLH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
This girl is a tease. I do understand if she was hurt by other guys. But from the looks of it, she is hurting you by the things she is doing. You, afterall have feelings too and they shouldn't be toyed with. Tell her to stop playing games with you. Tell her you like her very much and you would really like to have a relationship with her. If she says the same thing as before, then just be patient. Maybe she is testing you to see if you will stick around. It all starts with friendship first, then it goes further. So be patient ok
2006-07-08 00:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl might have been hurt but she is treating you very badly. Maybe she's not doing it on purpose but she still is. You might want to share all of your concerns with her and tell her that you care about her but you're not willing to be jerked around. If you will wait for her, as a friend, tell her so but that means she can't toy with your emotions by cuddling and other romantic things until she is ready for a real relationship.
2006-07-08 10:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she must like you or she wouldn't be kissing or calling you. Give her time, be there for her, listen to her, don't push her into anything. Why do you need a title of boyfriend? If you are happy with her enjoy every minute of it. Life is too short. A heart is a hard thing to mend and when the time is right for her, she will give it to you if it is meant to be.
2006-07-08 09:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by chillilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is playing you for a fool, plain and simple. Are either of you seeing anyone else? Where else is she getting free dinners, entertainment and sense of security from? You need to either make a stand for your own self respect, or accept that this it and it isn't going to get any better.
2006-07-08 11:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means she wants to move much slower than you do. Follow her lead, respect her wishes, and it may develop into what you're wanting it to. Then again, she may be too badly hurt to allow it. Give her about 6 months and see what happens. Good luck
2006-07-14 02:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confused because you like a girl. it is absolutely to be confused. sexual relationships should only be between a man and a woman. this is the normal way. do that and you'll feel the real love. but play it safe and be careful. don't let yourself manipulated.
2006-07-08 08:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by razvanache1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but seems scared. Take it slow.
2006-07-14 14:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by mlm1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋