Would you rather be lonely or settle?

Answer 1

settle with the right person, not just anyone. I'd rather be alone than to be with the one I don't like.

Answer 2

Lonely

Answer 3

I have been settled years ago, and well that was not so great and now I am single and have been for quiet some time, going on 5 years. I get lonely but why settle for just anything to fill a void in your heart. Getting busy, doing stuff will get your mind off of that so called (if) obbsession for a relationship. I think with a hobby or work and getting to know your self or join a group.

Answer 4

If it really came down to it; and I had not found a reciprocated love; I think any company would be better than no company at all: remember; during the war years, that isolation was used as a form of punishment!! So, it's not good to be alone. I feel very sad for anyone who ends up alone. But only you can decide on your fate, ultimately. Perhaps you've `given up' too soon, there are so many really nice people out there! Open your eyes, and take a real good look.
Good luck with this.

Answer 5

Loneliness is a human condition, it's part of the human psyche, irregardless of one's relationship status. People who are part of a couple, in a relationship, complicated or otherwise or are married get lonely as well as those who are single or not in a relationship. Being hitched doesn't guarantee happiness or absence of loneliness in life.

Even for people who, supposedly, are settled happily do still get lonely sometimes and feel that they are missing something in their life because that is part of being human. It's up to the person to find happiness and ward off loneliness in his life in whatever status he/she is in life.

For me the choice is to find happiness and contentment in whatever status I am in. I am single and unattached, but there are lots of things that I can do being alone and I thrive in that. It also helps that I have good friends, a supportive family to spend my time with. Bottom line is to make the best of what you have and don't go looking at other people's backyards and thinking that the grass is greener at their side of the road. Most of the time, it never is. Having so many desires in life breed discontentment and loneliness.

Answer 6

Definately lonely. Settleing strips you of hope and isn't healthy. If you settle you also deprive yourself of what might have been.

Answer 7

Settle if you find the right person..You can't be lonely forever..Maybe sometimes you need to be alone but having a trustable man/woman or friendis more important to me..

Answer 8

Personally I think all the men I've met are idiots so definatly lonely

Answer 9

I would rather be lonely

Answer 10

i think in todays world one needs to have somebody to settle down withif not true love then atleast arranged marriage love