I'm not a transsexual; I don't want to be a girl all the time. But I have to be a girl sometimes... I've tried to stop and I can't. I tried to keep it a secret for many years, but I have finally accepted myself for what I am and don't hide that I am a transvestite at all. Lots of people think it's cool, even a lot of girls. But I have yet to find a girl who would take me seriously as a love interest.
I'm a stable person. I don't drink, smoke or do any drugs... not even caffine! I make a good living. I'm creative. I'm good at a lot of things. I've given up all the nerdy stuff. I like long walks on the beach, snuggling, and quiet moments. As a girl, I'm quite good looking... rated 9.9 on Hot-or-Not!
But I can't even get a girl to hold my hand. I'm tired of being alone. Is there any hope for me to find a girl for a serious relationship?
2006-07-07 23:12:22 · 9 answers · asked by Tina Belmont 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there is hope for you to experience a loving, meaningful and serious relationship. I'd say you are a good person who knows who they are and what makes you happy and that in itself is priceless. Think of the all the miserable people who have no clue about their sexuality and cause their lovers endless sadness. But there are people out here who do have hearts with love and understanding to share and there is no reason for you not to believe you will not find a special love too.
2006-07-08 06:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by HisChamp1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You most definitely can find a beautiful, open minded woman who will want to share the world with you. It may take time, but you can find somebody. I know girls who love their crossdressing boyfriends a great deal. They are great lovers and best girlfriends.
Do not despair. I think you sound like a wonderful catch for any girl.
2006-07-08 11:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I find that a lot of not so attractive girls like guys like you. I mean you can't expect the drop dead gorgeous ones to go for you they don't even want to go out with us boxers wearing guys.
2006-07-07 23:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by GoateeBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea - SOUNDS Like someone needs to hit you over the head with a frying pan! GROW the " F " up already! You were born with a penis therefore your suppose to be a man... But, you feel like a woman inside? Thats because you need to GROW UP! Can't you make other things in your life a priority other than your sexuality? How about playing sports or woodworking, knitting, boating, scuba diving, jogging, reading, travelling, buying&selling homes, auto fix-up, painting, movies, weightlifting, cooking, pets and or animals, photography, fossill hunting, landscaping, hiking, camping, fishing, and the list go's on and on...
2006-07-07 23:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by johncharlesrealty 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that's cute hahhahaha "As a girl, I'm quite good looking... rated 9.9 on Hot-or-Not!"
of cos you can find somebody. just keep looking. myspace localhookupz blackplanet migente... alla that.
or you can travel and meet more people
2006-07-07 23:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by MISSVARS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is someone out there for you honey. God you are kinda an ideal mate. It would only suck if you were better looking than me! Don't worry she is out there!! Good Luck
Gracie*
2006-07-08 05:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by gracie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
post that on an adult dating site . you would be surprised at all the responses . like ( me on you ) that kind of site. i have seen similar post.
2006-07-07 23:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say there's someone for everyone....
2006-07-07 23:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by UniqueIsWhoSheIs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know wat to say i believe wat u can do is find a girl that a bisexual she will like u for the unique person u are.
2006-07-07 23:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋