ok, i think me and my best friend might actually getting together. (i really hope) we are now cuddling i am able to kiss her on the cheek and i'm able to scratch/rub her back (for hours).
i asked her if she likes it when i scratch her back and she said yes, when i kissed her cheek she leaned into it. and when i give her hug she held my head to her sholder.
but i havn't goten the word yet on if we are officially dating.
i've been wishing to be with her the last 5 years. now we are finnaly so close to her that i think my dreams might come true.
i haven't gotten a kiss from her yet. i'm the one who cuddles with her. she doesn't lean on me, but she never complains about what i do. i even ask her is she minds or wants me to stop and she says "it''s ok ." she'll smile when i kiss her. but i am still worried about what is happening. i'm afraid that she might still think of me as her friend and nothing more.
YES, i have told her all my feelings and she DOES know i want to be with her
2006-07-07 22:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 21 and she turns 21 in a few weeks.
2006-07-07 22:55:46 · update #1
please answer any other of my open questions, thank you.
2006-07-07 22:56:11 · update #2
the time hasn't come yet for me to kiss her on the lips. i'm waiting for the feeling to be right. i hope when the time ir right and i kiss her on the lips i'll know for sure about what is going on.
2006-07-07 22:58:01 · update #3
the thing i am really worried about is i don't know if she has the same feelings for me or not. we are echothers best friends, and i know she probibly worries about jeperdising the friendship.
2006-07-07 23:00:58 · update #4
i HAVE asked her out.
ok, if you think about it. asking her out isn't really an issue or not. she knows my feelings 100% and knows i love her. i even tell her that. (because i DO mean it and she believes me). we are already unoffically dating. we always do stuff together. she even takes 1 whole day out of the week to spend time with me. but that is also because we are best friends (which makes this hard), so i don't know if she loves me too or just trying to be a good friend. i just want to know if i should still worry about if she wants to be with me like i want to be with her or does she just want to be a friend but allow me to get really close? because she know i want to be close to her? i think we both have the feelings where we are happy when the other is.
2006-07-07 23:10:41 · update #5
Aww...! That's reallt sweet... But maybe you need to give her some time.. We dun usually give our heart out just like that. It takes some time and a lot of trust cos once we give our heart out, it might end up getting broken.. Like mine.. But not cos of the guy, cos of parents interfering. Anyway the guy was somewhat like you. Exactly what you wrote, he did.. But it wasnt 5 years.. only 3.. And funny thing, i was like her.. Just give her some time..I wish you both all the best :)
2006-07-07 23:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she never takes the first step, she apparently likes what's going on between you two. Take a further step, kiss her on the LIPS and see how she reacts to it. Maybe she's waiting for more before responding. Good luck!
2006-07-08 06:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I think you should sit down with her and just flat out ask. If rejection is what scares you, think of it this way. You are not the first and certainly won't be the last to be rejected. Also, there are plenty of fish in the sea if she does reject you. Keep your head up though cause you just may be surprised by her response but definatly ask her!! Good Luck!!
2006-07-08 05:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Karin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you so much!I think it is very awkward if the girl try to do the first to talk about her feelings!You got her feelings already and she falls for you!Go on propose a relationship to her and goodluck!
2006-07-08 05:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey step it up the female feels the same way u do tell her how u feel, and tell her that ur friends will never be broken, she waiting 4 to step up
2006-07-08 06:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by isopropyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r cute. N romantic. Tell to her what u feel. Good luck! :)
2006-07-08 06:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both seem to be into each other, you just need to make the move. MAKE THE MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-08 09:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well time.. thats all or u know ask her out!!!
2006-07-08 06:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by LiL'rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋