theres a guy in my colony he keeps staring at me all the time n try to attract me at him by doin acts n passing smile n even i have started liking him so should i pass smile or do sumthing to tell him that even i like him
none of us have ever talked with eachother but i am sure that we both r in love.
2006-07-07 22:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not love yet - it is what is known as "attraction." People always talk about "love at first sight," but in reality it starts with attraction. Some people have very strong attraction in the beginning and can barely stand to be apart. Love comes from getting to know who the person is inside - what he/she thinks, his/her morals, if he/she can be seriously committed in a relationship and best of all if this person can be a true friend, because in reality when the flames of passion become a simmer, it is the bond and connection of friendship, also known as "unconditional love," that survives.
2006-07-07 22:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe instead of just smiling you should say hello. I've heard of love at first sight (not sure if i believe in it) but have you heard of the word lust? it could just be that your both horny and you each like what you see. you could end up getting to know him and think he is a complete loser. get to know him. spend some time with him. have deep meaningful conservations with him. find out what he expects from his women, what he wants for the future, and see if his ideas and beliefs(not necessarily religious beliefs) are the same as yours. what is a colony? you don't live in a town, city, or state? how old are you? well your not Amish because you are on the net, so whats up that a smile means you are in love with out even saying hello. because i smile to at least a 100 different people in a day. does that mean i am in love with them?
2016-03-26 21:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling back at him would be a good way to show him that your interested in him. Try talking to him and hanging out with him. Before you know that the two of you are in love.
2006-07-08 03:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by lfahrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mistaking love with lust. Love is between 2 people that actually know each other and is made stronger as you grow as a couple. Lust is what you feel from across the room.
2006-07-07 22:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by timntina_stchas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse LOVE with ATTRACTION.
People GROW in love. It's attraction that sometimes get things STARTED.
Take you time. Go for quality and not just the passion.
2006-07-07 22:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by dustytymes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is not the same as love. You're attracted to each other, but it's too early to call it "love."
2006-07-07 22:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking up Softball for girls...you'll get better results.
2006-07-07 22:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to da guy... have u ever actually been out on a date with any other guy by any chance??? if not then, its probbly to early to call it love. tlak to him. see both his sides.
2006-07-07 22:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hyphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colony? Are you an ant?
2006-07-07 22:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him... so you would know your feelings... and that is also one way of knowing him better before falling in love
2006-07-07 22:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by boyang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋