it's a complicated situation about relationship. I'm a guy and I'll just call my friends as Guy 1, Guy 2 and Girl.
Guy 1 and Girl are really, really good friends. Everyone thought they are in a relationship but they are not. If they are, it's great and I'm fine with it. They have both been my good friends.
But Guy 1 recently moved to another state. When Guy1 moved away, I was sad that I lost a friend but for some reason I'm also happy that he moved away.
My other friend, Guy2, came into picture and now, Guy2 and Girl are together in a relationship. For some reason, I don't feel alright.
I was a little happy when Guy1 moved away and I don't feel alright now that Guy2 and Girl are together. What does this mean? I think I had always had a crush on Girl and now that she is really attached to someone, I'm jealous. Is that what it is?
2006-07-07 22:50:42 · 5 answers · asked by whitelighter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy
2006-07-07 22:55:14 · update #1
you're damn right i think you have just a crush and you're jealous. coz if your really are inlove with this girl you should have done your move right after guy1 moved in another state or by knowing that they are not really together. anyway if you're still confused here's a hint if it's love.
you think of her 24/7 or shes the one on your mind when you're not busy. you want to be with her or you want to be the guy who make her smile. you still need her even if you discovered something you dont really like. you pray for her. you want her to be happy when she's with you.
if you have this signs then take your chance and tell her. but dont make bad moves to ruin their relationship with your other guy friend.
2006-07-07 22:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i think you like the girl more than you actually know... i think you are really jealous.. but put it this way... guy1 and guy 2 are your friends... you aint telling them your feelings about the girl so how would they know and keep their distance... the girl also doesnt know your feelings for her...so you cant blame her too... i guess guy2 and the girl are doing fine... so as a friend better hide and forget your feelings.. i think friendship is more valuable than anything else... love is.. but what if this is not really love and you destroyed your friendship for what you thought is right... find someone for you nad be happy for them...
2006-07-08 05:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by unpretty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup!You are insecure, you must do your first move as early as possible!Court the girl and tell her that she is a very special for you and you want her to be your girlfriend,and that remains to be seen if she likes you too as her BF!Dont expect too much!
2006-07-08 05:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you like the girl. If you're a guy, chase her. If you're NOT a guy, and she's not a dyke. Well, leave them alone. Apparently she's not into homosexuality, although you might be.
2006-07-08 05:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get into the puzzle take urself out n enjoy
2006-07-08 05:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋