Does anyone know how much is too fast, too much, too soon is?

Question

I have liked this guy for awhile and it turns out that he seems to like me too...we have spent some time together...playing video games, and we just saw Pirates 2, in the theater..! I just need people's opinion on this: How much time spent together is too much....how fast things progress is too fast and how soon is too soon ? Please if everyone who answers this could give me feed back on this...I would appreciate it...thanks so much..!

Answer 1

I think it depends... like everything in life. Some people will love spending every min with the other person. Some will get very annoyed after more than a few dates per week.
You have to look at his reaction and reponds... his body language and tone of voice will say alot.
If he's warmer and more intimate, then it's good, if he sounds more annoyed and colder... then not good... you know you stepped into too much.

Too fast he'll feel a bit confused and hesitant to go foward, same with too soon (which is too fast).

I would add that the quality of the time you spend together is more important, if it's always a blast to be together, then i don't think there's a too much... usually it's too much when that feeling gets weaker.