in a relationship, is it 3 weeks, 3 months. is there a rule? or special ettiquette?
2006-07-07 21:52:32 · 15 answers · asked by penguin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you feel it.
And I mean REALLY feel it. Force yourself not to say it until the feeling is just unbearable. Too many people say the words and not mean it.
2006-07-07 22:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is really a rule, but I would have to say that you don't really know in 3 weeks.
You may know you are totally attracted to this guy and that he is totally sexy and that he makes you totally happy, but be careful with throwing out that word too soon or you may scare him off and you'll get your heart broken.
2006-07-07 21:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go slowly with this... like build it up until when you say it, you both expect it.
Like say... the relationship has been more and more intimate, and it's like you both knew you loved each other...
then i think it's ready, and you'd only need a proper moment to say it.
So yeah, it's not really a timed rule, but a "feel it's okay" rule.
Like for me, i would just feel at ease and warmer if someone said it to me on the 1st date, but my friend would freak out.
It's different with everyone, know your lover well =)
2006-07-07 22:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you're comfortable.
No-one can tell you how to feel, and hiding your feelings is hiding your true self. Relationships where all feelings are disclosed are always the best relationships. If he's uncomfortable with your feelings, then he's uncomfortable with the one part about you that he should be attracted to the most.
Come clean. It'll feel good.
2006-07-07 21:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mikkel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, there's two big things to wait for.
A: Don't say the L word unless you mean it.
B: Don't say the L word if it comes off as creepy.
An example of B is going out on a second date and having her say "I think I love you."
Use your judgment in regards to B, other than that, good hunting.
2006-07-07 21:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by thegreatdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule about that...if you love him,you should tell him,or at least show him that you love him...he may be a bit "frightened","scared" if you are together for a while...i believe that after at least a month it's absolutely fine to tell him...
Hope it helped!!!
xxx,ooo...
2006-07-07 22:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by UknowUloveMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really if u love that person then tell tehm u love them it dont matter if it has been 2 hrs........just dont expect them to say it back right away they might not feel the same about u at the same point in time as u do......but no there is no rule say it to them now if u mean it.....and if u do love them let them know.......
2006-07-07 21:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by spongebobsquarpantsfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it feels right. I didn't say it untill 9mths into my relationship with my man. But I knew it was right.
2006-07-07 21:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i said it when i felt the time was right.....i said it after 2 weeks of dating and we are married now and been married 8 yrs
2006-07-07 21:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he says it you may be waiting along time but if you don't want to loose him don't say it first
good luck
2006-07-07 21:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋