My 'boyfriend' and i had a fight last night over a lie his fren told me. We didn't even get to get back together since my mom found out about us then his friend came into the picture. It started when he told me he still liked me and he asked if i still did. I said no it's fading away. But he said it's ok he'll start from scratch so i'll like him again so we could be together. Then his friend told me the next day that he wanted me to like him so that he could dump me as revenge for saying that my feelings are fading. So i believed him and when i told him he got mad and then i got mad and we said our goodbyes. I cried from last night until now. Off&on. Problem is, this always happens, we'll get back together after a few weeks. I don't want to go through loosing him again when i jus fall for him after my feelings fade. Now we're not talking to each other and my feelings for him has started fading again. Help.. I won't talk to him until he talks to me first. He knows that. What should i do
2006-07-07 21:28:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let the time solve it. do not be so sensible.
2006-07-07 21:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always the friends with the helpful information...If this is always happening with the same guy and you really don't want to keep going through this then do exactly what you said you would and don't talk to him untill he talks to you. Talk things out next time you guys speak. Maybe you can be friends. If you always end up back together then you must care for eachother just maybe not in the sence you've trying for. If it's always happening then he'll start talking to you eventually so while you're waiting and your feelings are fading try and find someone else you can focus your attention on. Even if there's no one else you like find a guy that your friends with that you can talk to and start hanging out with him a bit. You never know someone that's unappealing now could be the next person you fall for. People tend to grow on you. If you do end up with him again figure out which of his friends you can trust or even become better friends with one of his close friends so you're sure to get the right information.
2006-07-08 04:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amber L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey true love doesn't fade. I think maybe you should keep him as a friend, I'm not sure how old you are but if your mom won't let you have him as a boyfriend you must be pretty young so keep your options open and be friends with him as well as many boys your age don't rush to grow up it'll happen before you know it! Listen to your mom she loves you more than any boy will and wants whats best for you!
2006-07-08 04:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy sh*t you are one f**ked up chick. Well, my advice is to move on. There are approx. 3 and a half billion other guys out there. Don't get caught up in your small little world. Life is a hell of a lot longer than you think. Finding the right guy will only take a small fraction of that time, trust me things will work out. Good luck and try to stop crying, focusing on the situation helps nothing.
2006-07-08 04:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on. Find a guy that can hold your interest , Any guy that can't isn't worth the way you feel right now. Don't you think you deserve better? If not you need to become single and learn to love your self first.
2006-07-08 04:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by ki_ki_marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care for someone you will always ask them if something you hear is truwe or not instead of assuming for the simple fact that the guy who told you the bullshit probably likes you and is trying to get you to break up so he has a chance---call your bf bite your tounge swallow your pride and tell him you were an idot for believing someone else before asking him and giving him achance to explain
good luck
2006-07-08 04:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm..ic..complicated huh??
if ur feelings for hm has faded,it means u dun reely like him oready rite??
den b frens..
u can always take da first step n talk to him first ritez?
2006-07-08 04:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by yellow&black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....dont fight over a lie.Make up and dont let ur relation be so weak that can break wid a lie....Cheer up !! all will be fine
2006-07-08 04:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ cute_n_lovely♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk things out once he calls n u ll b fine n don u waste ur precious tears if u think he is not worth it
2006-07-08 04:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by bottleup14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yay 4 me 2 pts.
2006-07-08 04:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by halogrl007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a prat. dump him move on.
2006-07-08 04:32:47 · answer #11 · answered by bryanocarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋