i think i need to move i out my moms house cause me and her don't get along and the more i try to talk to her the worse our relationship gets she treats me diffrent from my littler brothers and i don't know what else to do help
2006-07-07 21:24:54 · 15 answers · asked by gotminez06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Since you are 18 and feel like your Mom is getting on your nerves or visa verse. You could see if any of your friends need a room mate. Get a good job first. And go to the store and see the prices of food and supplies. Basics like Toilet paper, milk, bread, meat, dish soap . Think of what you use or your mom uses to make you comfortable in your house. Can you supply those things after you move. Dishes, forks spoons, Bed, Towels, Laundry, can you figure out how much you can live on just with the basics and a room mate. Live on a very tight budget. Say no to your free loading Friends when they drop by to party? shop at thrift stores.
2006-07-07 22:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need more information, like...how old are you? Are you out of school? Do you have a job and can afford to be on your own? Don't leave unless you're at least 18 and answered yes to the other 2 questions. Don't let this ruin your chances at life. If you're older, then it's expected she'd treat you differently. Are you acting like the older sibling? Are you helping out? You call it your "Mom's" house so I assume Dad isn't there. It's also obvious you don't feel as if it is your home also. If you're a minor, get an adult friend or family member to help resolve the problem. Don't end up on the street.
2006-07-07 21:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a mother of 5 children..one of whom is an adult.
If you are an adult then it is only right that she treat you different than your younger siblings. You want her to respect you as an adult but with that you have to realize there comes responsibility.
As an audult she no longer owes you anything. Anything and everything she does for you from now on is due to love. The free ride of childhood is over. Show responsibility and offer to help out!
If you find that you cannot accept the living arrangements..then it is time to go. You may find as my adult son is now finding..it wasnt so bad at home as he was thinking.
Try not to disrupt the family with your newfound identity. You mother still has children to raise. She has done her job with you and you can either help in that process or hinder it. If you love your mom and siblings do not make her job more difficult!
Best wishes on whatever you do!
2006-07-08 09:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's just time to part ways for a little while. Give each other space. Try to remember that being a parent means giving up freedoms you take for granted and also that even though she'll always love you in her heart she's feeling pressed with bills and groceries.. Helping financially might help or maybe giving her a gift just for her might help. Good gift idea's would be a spa treatment.
2006-07-07 21:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by drew2376 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best timing is when you're ready to live out on your own financially. mentally you can adjust it but financially you can't. you have to have a stable job or somehow have enough $ to support yourself out in the world without your parents if you're really going to move out. what's the point of moving out of the house if you're still depending on your parents to pay for your own rent? try talking to your parents. i'm sure they wouldn't want you to leave neither. that's when you can tell they care. i'm pretty sure you don't want to move out but just that right now you're having family issues. just try working things out with them. there's always a way around it because families always love each other no matter what it seems. good luck with them
2006-07-07 21:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by dorkydork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be time. I'm 25 now and moved out when I was 16. I had problems with my parents too. I was real mature at the age of 16 too. If you think you can handle it on your own go for it. I was a black sheep of my family too.
2006-07-07 21:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa&Michael U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur really seriuos about leaving then save up money get work,so once u can pay for an apartment and the rent.So the money u have and the job gives u pay u won't have to go back to wear u don't want to go.the last thing u would want is for u to have to go back to their house,the house that u were wanting to get out of so bad, cuz of lack of money. be ready to live on your own then make ur move
2006-07-07 21:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! i'm in the same situation as you..it seems like everything bad that happens is my fault while my little brothers enjoy their day..well i'm about to start college and it's in carson which is REALLY far from where I live so i was considering moving out...so to answer your question A.S.A.P
2006-07-07 21:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U R gaining enough money and do not forget yr mom for ever, try it. but just try to solve yr problems with yr mom than scaping
2006-07-07 21:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved away from home when I was 18 and haven't lived there since. It's called adulthood...more should try it.
2006-07-07 21:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋