i have a very common problem. my girl friend stopped responding to me after she came to know about me being from a lower caste. i tried to convince her a lot. i dont know how to deal with this as i come from a christian and wealthy family and had no such problems before. She has been my frist and last girl friend for 5 years now. please folks tell me if u have any bright ideas. i miss her a lot help me.
2006-07-07 21:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Unsaved 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her to grow up..this is the 21st century.. n itss such a poor thing tat u only know abt her idea abt low caste after 5years..
Maybe its her parents opposing ..u ought to find out..
2006-07-07 21:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think you should avoid such type off human beings who thinks themselfts as very great.....stupid gril.....if she ignore low caste people then is she not a human being ?....i think she is very very proud of her self, one day will come when she will be on roads and seeks for the help of those low caste people. If you are so bothered just forget her, as in future there is no garranty that she loves you nor your family members....i hate that gril...
2006-07-07 21:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all convince urself that your caste is not lower. no caste is lower or upper. its only we people who make categories and are deviding the world in groups. u can differentiate people religion wise but even then no one can say that this particular religion falls in lower category and that one in upper case. so first you make urself clear then try to convince her.
2ndly even if she is convinced, with love, emotional black mailing or by force, she is not going to accept your caste from depth of her heart n mind. you will face lot of difficulties on every point of life.
one more thing u said you have been with her from last 5years. what you both have been doing in those five years?u never told her about your caste? she never asked??u never came to know that she dislikes ur caste? and she never told u that she dislikes your caste? this is not making any sense.
2006-07-07 23:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be free to do her own thing. You can not stop someone from "hating", however you can attempt to show her great things about it, and educate her. You never know somewhere down the line her mind could change, or you'll just have to get over it and live with it. Whatever works.
2006-07-07 21:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Waukisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get this event as a case to launch a nationwide campaign calling for human equality in India.
2006-07-07 21:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you running behind somenone who is low? I f she doesn't respect people for what they are but for what caste they belong to, she is just thick headed. I say you first try telling her that we're all equal coz we're all human beings, if she still doesn't understand..then dump her. She doesn't deserve to be liked either.
2006-07-07 21:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by pawn_in_army 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her...u cant love this type of people....
2006-07-07 21:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by zee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋