what must i do?im feeling guilty right now......plz help me
2006-07-07 20:51:34 · 22 answers · asked by nil imran 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should feel guilty. Just because she is not the prettiest, doesn't mean that you were not attracted to her in the first place. You need help with your priorities, unless that is all you want in life is beauty, that is all you are going to get. Eventually, it is going to run out on you and, then you are going to be by yourself. Haven't you ever heard of personality making a difference?
2006-07-07 20:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 20⤊ 5⤋
First, communicate with the girl involved and admit that your were wrong. Her dignity has been severely damaged.
You need to take a look at youself and your values before you enter another relationship.
Think of why you want to a relationship and what you can bring to it. Your reaction to this girl, based purely on physical apprearance, had delivered her a double rejection and (possibly) contributed to her failing an exam.
The guilt you feel can be turned to good. Get some help in the area of relationships and how they work. Know yourself better. It good that you have the honesty to admit you need help, take the next step and seek some counselling.
As a result your next relationship may be a joy for you both :)
Peter
2006-07-07 21:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong. If I understand your question ur saying that you left your girl because there are prettier girls. If that's so, then that is just wrong. And ya it is your fault that she failed her exam because she probably liked you alot and you messed her head all up right before her exam. All she could probably do was think about you and think about what she did wrong for you to leave her.
2006-07-07 20:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa&Michael U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should. Go back and apologize. Beauty is not the only characteristic u should look 4 in a girl. It's the inner beauty that counts.
2006-07-07 21:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing. You already did enough damage. She's lucky to be rid of an insincere guy like you and was probably more upset at herself for allowing herself to be fooled by such a loser. She probably failed he exam because she no longer trusted her intelligence.
2006-07-07 21:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up with her for the prettier girl? that was pretty stupid...honestly if you made ur ex go to an all time low and even drive her into failing her finals your gonna have some kissing up to do.. i would say dump the pretty girl....and get ur ex back before she hates you...and when a girl hates you it aint pretty
2006-07-07 20:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's dumb to let a GUY get in the middle of her final exam. Especially when he left her for prettier girls. Shame on her for letting such crap get in her head. And not pass.
2006-07-07 20:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u r saying that for u beauty is the only criterion? well that's ur choice but u should have shown decency while breaking up with ur ex. just go up to her and tell her how u feel about it and offer to be a dear friend forever (even if u r lying).
2006-07-07 20:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u left the ur x cos of pretty gal??u knw u deserve to b guilty...cos u r the one who caused her life upside dwn!!i hope u knw that inner beauty are the one which'll last not those face or bdy beauty...for me, u seem like u r not eva ready for a relationship...pls go for a hobby or sumtink??knw mre frenz 1st b4 u go to a relationship!!
2006-07-07 21:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by bishan_ite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of 2 teenage boys so I am alittle familiar with this stuff.. YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE FOR LOOKS.... You won't be happy with her.. Personality is the key.. sounds like you are a self centered @#$ pig.. welcome to man hood... I hope my sons never date for looks.. If 1 of my sons did what you did.. I would put them back in kindergarten.. You need to learn the facts of life.. Grow up..
2006-07-07 21:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats wrong to leave one girl for another just cuz the other is prettier, well i think you should 1 deal with it or 2 try and make it up to your ex.
2006-07-07 20:56:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋