idk if this happens 2 any1 else but everytime i get 2 be friends wit a guy him or one of his friends has 2 screw it all up and brings ya know into the picture there guys but come on wats wrong wit just being friends???? any other girls hav this problem?
2006-07-07 20:42:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My guess is you are incredibly attractive and therefore it is very difficult for your male friends to not want something other than friendship. If you are very firm about wanting to be just friends from the start that could help things along. Try not to be flirtatious if you don't want anything more than friendship as well.
2006-07-07 20:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can be. You either gotta let them know up front what you expect or find other friends who get it on their own. But let me be honest and say hooking up, sex or whatever is never far from thought. I have a ton of girl friends and have thought plenty of times how it would be too hook up with them and I am sure they have vice versa. Doesn't mean it will happen or we will imply it ever. You just gotta find those guys who know how to not overstep that boundary
2006-07-08 03:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be friends with girls that don't attract them (not nesseceraly unattractive). Guys have this thing called a p-e-n-i-s and it's like a radar for mating. Unfortunately, this radar wasn't designed for friendship. Unless friendship includes mating, all is doomed. Get it?
2006-07-08 03:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by janvitos 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When men want to be friends with women, there is always a sexual attraction first. Men cannot be just friends with a woman without some sexual attraction at some point. It's just how we are wired.
2006-07-08 11:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THey can, but boundaries must be established, and if you're a girl you have to learn how to be one of the guys, like burping, not being to sensitive, etc.
2006-07-08 03:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by moniiluv17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys want to be free and girls have a problem with that. Women are evil. HISS!!!
2006-07-08 03:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by nex_nox_noctus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I hate it when that happens. I wish i could have friends that are guys that aren't Gay!!!
2006-07-08 03:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...i agreed...i haf tis prob too...u knw??
here is my story:
as i was in yrs 1 in my accounting, i mit alot of gals frenz...letz called them group R...eva though we r nt very close, we do still chat...hmm...u knw y i nv close to em??cos ey gt evil mouth tt tok behind ppl bck so i jus being nice...u c, i admit im nt very gd lookin but i still haf lotz of guyz frenz
den when i in 2nd yrs of accounting, we change class n im glad...but in tis other class i gt lotz of guyz so called close to me n well...tis group R see it n started to speak bad about me...i was wonder y guyz n gals cn be simply b frenz??y muz tink tt is other ways...i reli very angry...nw ey eva ask my other frenz to check on me whether i gt lotz of guyz contact...n y i gt so many guyz frenz??oh my god!!so i knw hw u feel...the feeling is very bad n seriously i HATE it...is there a prob when u gt lotz of guyz frenz??
2006-07-08 03:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by bishan_ite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin wrong with it
2006-07-08 03:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by _ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋