why do guys say this magic words once when they are infront of there gurlfriends? then after when they already told it to there gurl... most of the time they will just say these magic words when they are talking on the phone or saying it in a text message... why do guys say it once? why? help me out please... i really cant figure guys totally...
2006-07-07 20:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by kai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said it when we are already together... he just said it once.. then he nevers fail to say it on a phone call or a txt message....
2006-07-07 20:49:41 · update #1
Because if you where told every time you want to hear it, then you would be the one that is in control of the relationship. So in order to say in control when make the choice when to say it, to show you who is in real control, lol. And we guys know it piss you girl off, lol and we guys don't what you females to figure us out, lol. does that piss you off more. lol plus it makes it special when we do say it, that you girls would get naked and have sex with us. lol
2006-07-07 20:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally when a guy tells you those "magic words" it is because he wants you to feel impressed. If he thinks he can get you to give him more he will tell you every once in a while just to keep you thinking that he does love you. If he is a man, he will tell you that he loves you on a real regular basis, like daily. He also will be willing to say it in front of other people without worrying what other people will say or think. If he is unwilling, he may just want to get into your pants, and says it in hopes of getting there. Be cautious of guys like this, they are not sincere.
2006-07-07 20:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, you are dealing with immaturity, and the absence of true feelings, If you are looking for someone to say I love you, then you have not yet met the person that really cares for you!
Do not worry about love coming to you. It will, but not when you are looking for it or trying to make it happen. No one has every found love looking for it. And no one can MAKE someone love them!
One day when you are in a hurry to do something, with a million things on your mind, nature will smack you in the face. There will not be a darn thing that you will be able to do about it. And it will not be one sided.
So go on and live. Go every place that you can! It will happen and when it does you will not ask the questions you have posted on this site! Join the Air Force and go see the world.
2006-07-07 20:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date Docter Here. The reason guys only happen to say "I LOVE YOU" once is because they would rather show you how much they love you, instead of making a show for your girlfriends, it seems fake that way. So the next time he does something special like plans a dinner date as a surprise, or buys you a gift for no particular occasion at all just know that its his way of saying "I LOVE YOU" GOOD LUCK
2006-07-07 20:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by S_Dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i accedently said it to my girlfriend just recently after going out for 4 months. I meant to say alright baby I'll call you later. but instead I said alright baby I love you...
it slipped out and I was like uh oh!
after a strange look she said it back to me.
that was that. I din't say it again until a week or so passed because I already expressed how I felt. I don't like to say it after every conversation on the phone or just anytime, I don't want it to loose it's meaning. actually, the next time it was said, she had told me... I think it all the time. I just find other things to say to her to express I care for her a great deal
2006-07-07 20:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by vail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not aware all guys do that. Maybe only your guy. Maybe they only say it to become your BF. Maybe they can't say it to your face because they're not 100% sure it's true. How often do you need it said? Are you and they old enough to really know what it means?
2006-07-07 20:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said it its the magic word..na
people who say it dont mean it actually , the guys who are silent are the best.
2006-07-07 20:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by mysterious guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it to my GF every chance I get, I think i'm saying it tooo much though! first time I said it was when I actually knew that I was the luckiest guy ever! ;)
2006-07-07 20:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by ninjadude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
luk.....i wud prefer a guy who says it once or twice in a day face to face but mean it........n come on u must know when he says it n mean it by there body language ......dats if ur smart enough..!!!
2006-07-07 20:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by aliya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is prolly too shy to say it in person agin...they dont want to confront the girl agin and tell her these wrds...trust me guys can be pretty weirf dumtimes
2006-07-07 20:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋