Anything short of sex?

Question

Me and my girlfriend are both 18, both virgins and have an intense relationship with each other. We want to get closer physically without it leading to sex. We both agreed that when we do have sex it has to be special. But i mean anything short of that , anyone got any ideas that we can get to know each other sexually(any special places that i should rub?...) PLease no immature responses, a wise word or 2 will be greatly appreciated

Answer 1

Personally, I feel that sex is a mental boundary, not crossed during penetration, but crossed in the mind. If you and your girlfriend have already had heavy make-out sessions in which you KNOW you were doing eachother mentally, you've already crossed that boundary and may as well have penetration. Of course, it's a little different for her, where she has physical evidence of having sex-- once the hymen is gone, though, there's really no difference.

Answer 2

start it from ears,first of all rub her ears very gently,then kiss her ears a light kiss a polite kiss, then gently take her into your arms then again a kiss on her neck,then gently remove her hair wrapped around her neck,then now is the time for the kiss on her lips.then comes removing of TOP if ND REMEMBER IF both are fully agree...otherwise don't even thinkl of removing any clothes. so where were we yes, remove the top very gently everything should go very gently.then you remove your shirt then lay down and hey don't stop kissing it makes the mood turn ON.then remove her bra if she's wearing,after that rub her boobies gently and suck her nipple with the help of ur mouth and lick her nipples when her nipples are fully straight or wot do u say when her nipples are fully out...BONZI she is reacting. now is the time to remove her lower and panty don't STOP kissing..remove your lower..since this will be ur first time try some oil or gel that is available in the market for ur PE*** .that way u will find it easy when u r putting in. WEll now here comes the most important part that is putting in....u will have to do this very gently coz this is gonna hurt u a little bit....put it in very gently first time u cannot find that where to put because u can't find the hole....in this case she will help u by herself......now keep that in mind that u have to do it very slowly not like some HORSE a little push then another then another..keep pushing very gently after 3 or 4 minutes push a bit harder and now u have to go alone i can't help u any more...and hey tell me how it was....

Answer 3

My question is if you feel that oral sex would risk your virginity? Oral sex can be a great option for those who don't want to have intercourse. The other option would be to help each other masterbate.

Answer 4

no immature responses????? NERVES. you need to get off of your mummy and daddy's computer, little boy, and go to sleep.

if you have to ask , you are too young to know.
ask your biology teacher in middle-school. they should teach you a class there

Answer 5

You can have oral sex or just get naked together and make out.