I started interning at my local police station and I work in the Properties dept. I met this guy Eddie there. On his last day in that dept. I was planning on giving him my number and telling him lets go hang out sometime. He beat me to it and asked if I'd like to have dinner with him and his daughter. He's under 30 years old, I believe hes 26 or so. I'm 19. The last relationship I had, the guy dumped me for a cell phone that his ex gave him. I feel that maybe with Eddie, we could end up being good friends or maybe more than that if everything turns out ok. I'm nervous, should I meet him and his daughter or give him a counter plan like "I have these two dinner/show tickets would you like to go to that instead?" Or just what happens happens? What do you think? Creative and helpful answers will win the 10 points.
2006-07-07 19:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well,I think you should accept it and see to it that you will have a smooth flowing relationship on where you want it to be...meet with him as long as it goes well....
2006-07-07 22:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by lainskie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well right now you are putting too much thought into it. Just say yes to the offer that he already put on the table and if you enjoy yourself, then ask him out the second time if he doesn't beat you to it first.
What you are have to realize is that right now, you know nothing about this guy so a lot of things could happen. You could end up really liking him, or just liking him as a friend, or you might not like him at all...So right now, don't look too far ahead. Just go with the flow. Go out with him and his daughter and see what happens after that.
2006-07-07 19:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him and see how it goes if the daughter is like a teenager she might not like you ut if she's like 6 or under she probably will like you and the guy already likes you just give it a chance. But it should go well I mean come on Blondie lol no man can't fall in love with lol just give it a chance and if it doesn't work out for some reason just move on there's plenty fish in the sea.
2006-07-07 19:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go out with him accept the invitation as is. He is being up front about his daughter, you will never be able to get around that part of his life. If you offer an alternative he may perceive it as an attempt to exclude his daughter from the picture.
2006-07-07 19:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rare Indigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go for it. You never know what could have been if you don't try. I think going into it thinking at least we could be good friends if nothing else, is a good attitude to have. I am glad to see that it was a mutual attraction. Good Luck To You
2006-07-07 19:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by rqtpie19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the guy is really interested in u if he wants u to meet his daughter. and i also think u may be afraid to meet her if u want to try a date with just the two of u. if that is the case be upfront and let him know that ur not ready to meet her. there is nothing wrong with not wanting to meet her right now. but let him kno that.
2006-07-07 19:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by petite_laydi19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go with him and his daughter, he'll like that, and if he wants you to meet his daughter sounds like he really likes you.
I wish you the best
2006-07-07 19:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by rykkardo8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do the dinner thing with the daughter. if all goes well then go out again.
2006-07-07 19:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the both of you don't work in the same place then it is okay, so go for it and be happy. Make sure you get the cuffs. lol
2006-07-07 19:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can go with him and his daughter to know more about them...and try to go out with him many times to find if he likes you and can be a serious relationship??
good Luck
2006-07-07 19:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋