Ok this is sort of a rant but here it goes. I recently got back in touch with a girl i had dated for a little bit back in high school. Anyways things are alright until she opens up and tell me all about how she shouldnt have broken up with me blah blah. so i make the mistake of opening up and we talk for a bit go out a few times. then alll the sudden she stops taking my calls and the next time i see her she introduces me to her b/f who she's been seein this whole time. My question is what the heck just happened?
2006-07-07 19:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by J B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it looks like to me she was playing you. She was probably seeing if anything was different with you since the last time you guys dated. And apparently, she decided to lie and keep things from you, until she was caught red handed. A very crappy thing to do to someone. Move on to someone better, who won't screw you over, because this girl isn't worth your time or effort anymore.
2006-07-07 19:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Maico 3 · 32⤊ 4⤋
She was playing you. Unfortunately you're right she is a jerk. The good news is most women aren't like that. Just as most men aren't jerks. I just happen to date and marry all the male jerks! Good luck to you. You will find someone that appreciates you for you. BTW next time she gets in touch with blow her off. Don't fall for her silly games again.
2006-07-08 02:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Constance Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not jerks, but that WOMAN you were seeing was a HUGE jerk. Just continue to be a good guy, and dont take out the fact that she was a JERK on the next woman. Keep your head up man!
2006-07-08 02:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by dinah259 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was using you to 'take her out' while she was probably having a rough patch with BF. Them Friday nights get pretty costly/lonely when you don't have some poor dude picking up your tab and showing you a good time. Sorry buddy. I know it's not of much help but, as they say. Plenty of fish in the sea. Besides, wtf were you doing trying to go out with someone you dated in high school?
2006-07-08 02:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously wasn't worthy anyways. Playing the field is anyone's perogative (unless in a committed relationship) be it man or woman, just be smart enough to recognize it, and move on.
2006-07-08 02:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by jasmine828_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just forget about it . She is not the type of girl for you if she pull something like that.I would say just watch out for girls like her. Some women are jerks but not all so don't give up yet. There some one out there for you.
2006-07-08 02:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nesha 17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are jerks because we have to deal with men.
I would have felt bad for you if you had not put all women in the jerk category.
You are immature.
Grow up.
2006-07-08 02:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got played. never take a girl back without the notion that there is someone else in the picture.they like to have the upper hand like you thought you had me but really i played you.just protect your feelings in those situations.
2006-07-08 02:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women have been known to pull guys around the table just to get kicks or to ruin your life
2006-07-08 02:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by ditre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb 4 tht sum time she was insecure
2006-07-08 02:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by bottleup14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow that is horrible! im guessin she played you...wow she is a jerk but keep in mind we arent all like that.
2006-07-08 02:04:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋