ever feel like your struggling for things to talk about, or dont have anything at all to talk about..when your trying to find anything and everything to talk to a girl about so its not an aquward silence.....what can you talk about?
2006-07-07 18:54:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX it's always awkward on first dates. askibng too little questions make you seem you're not interested ansd asking too many can be a problem as well. It's okay to take a breather. Or you can tell her stories about yourself. Answer the same questions you've asked her. In silent moments just look at her and smile, give her a compliment. All girls like that. Good luck hun. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-07 19:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her. Ask her about her favorite food, book, store, etc. Get to know her.. Do not talk about yourself the whole night. Girls like attention. We live for attention. Here is a good conversation starter:
You say "I love your blouse. The color looks great on you. Where is it from?" Now be honest. If the shirt does not look good, do not compliment it. Find something else to compliment her on. You can compliment two body parts of hers- hair and eyes. Everything else is either weird or offlimits. Never talk about weight in front of a girl. Its a major turn off.
Another way to start a conversation, is to ask her what she likes. Here is a way to start a convo:
You say- Do you like to read?I read a great book called
Hopefully you two have something in common. That will help alot.
Well hope all goes well
2006-07-08 02:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask the important questions. I swear, you know within an hour of talking with someone if there's a future with this person. Besides the obvious (family, friends, carreer etc.), ask where she wants to be in a year, five years... what's important to her. Ask what she likes to do, what her interests are. Ask what she's looking for, what she's not (never be afraid to ask this!!) You'll know a lot after such a conversation, and will know whether to pursue her or not.
2006-07-08 02:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine828_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask questions about music, life, prior relationships, family and many other things. Don't worry so much on what to talk about it only gets in the way of things. Just sit back enjoy yourself and have a blast.
2006-07-08 01:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her questions about herself and what she likes to do. Or if u saw her that day, talk about something funny that happened. Just be urself and break the silence. Silence can kill any relationship.
2006-07-08 02:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask about her, seem interested in her. Don't go on about yourself unless asked.
Ask things that you want to know, but nothing to personal.
2006-07-08 01:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she wants to be in the future, like to hang out with, and her birthday so you can go to it. And joke around with her.
2006-07-08 01:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
movies, books, tv shows, music, bands, clothes, her dreams & what she wants out of life, anything, except don't talk about the weather, politics, sex, and gossipy things
2006-07-08 01:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask questions about her so you can get to know her.
2006-07-08 01:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any thing u would want her to know about u u should ask.
2006-07-08 02:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by petite_laydi19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋