Here's my problem....?

Question

I am in my 30's and single. (by choice). I still look like a little girl I am even carded when I buy alcohol. I like to go on dates but the only males that hit on me are under 18 or over 60. When I tell people my age they call me a liar. I have had to show my license a few times. My mom looks like my older sister and my grand mother looks like she could be my mom and they are great grand mothers. How do I get a mature male to come on to me short of ripping off my clothes and dancing naked ( it would not be a pretty sight :) ) I am not bragging believe me I would love to look at the very least my age. My sis is a grandmother and she still looks like a teen she loves it but, she also loves young guys. I want a guy I can have a real conversation with. It's been about 6 mnths since i went on a real date. Getting desperate here people, give me some ideas.

Answer 1

You've been blessed with GREAT GENES!
I know your dillima...I'm 44 yrs old and people still think I'm in my 20s. Just yesterday I was swimming with my 13 yr old son, and one of the girls in the pool asked him if I was his sister!
He has told me I always look young, and that all his friends say I look young too.
And yes, I get carded too.
But I look at that as a BLESSING...
It's always hard to find the right guy...if it was easy NONE of us would have anything to fuss about.
DON'T give-up hope....
Dating a much younger guy, well ya-know thats like babysitting, a much older man well, he can be educational...
My husband is 10 yrs older than me.. and 15 yrs later, we're still happy. :)

Answer 2

I have the same problem, for one most people 30 year olds have made the choice to be single and work hard. But I have notice that single 30 year old do look younger. But most 30 year old don't know how to act around each other or on dates. But I take it as I get it. I belong to a bdsm club that I meet people that I like to be around with. Plus most females are naked and they dance naked and at time they get spanked. lol

Answer 3

A real date? What's that?

Believe me, I feel your pain. I'm 38, and have to grow a beard, otherwise I have people telling me not to cross the street without an adult. One of my daughter's classmates saw us out on a walk together one day, and teased her about having a boyfriend when she went to school the next day.

I hate to say it, but I think the only real answer is.... *cringe*... going on a blind date. If a friend chooses someone nice (and the right age) for you, and tells them your age, then they at least have to sit down and get to know you for a bit, and they won't make some snap judgement that you're just some little girl.

Answer 4

Hang out in places where the crowd is more your age. Stay away from night clubs and bars - those tend to have the younger crowds in them.
Try going to nice bars - upscale places where you are going to find the professional type people - which you can rest assured are over 30, or at least mature enough to carry on a conversation with an adult.

Answer 5

Mia,

Join a club or take a class. That is a nice way to meet people you will have things in common with. It is not how old you look which is the problem, it is something else. You have to figure what that is.

Answer 6

Change the way you dress , wear old fashioned clothes . I will say this , some people would do many things to be in your position . I myself would not change a thing .

Answer 7

maybe u r shopping the in the wrong markets go to the places that only 21 and over can attend.

Answer 8

dont worry the right guy wont id you youll see im 46 and if you live in o.c. i would love to meet you

Answer 9

Well it seems you have a good problem to have....just be patient, sooner or later you'll meet that special person.

Answer 10

Well,enjoy your looks while you are young.Cherish your beauty not.You will be sorry in the long run.