so what would one of you guys do..if you are crushing on your best friends dad..who is married. i'm 17 and she is 16 haha..what can i say i like thee older men. my best friends just thinks its funny...so do i ..but i can't help it.
2006-07-07 18:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by bunty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just remember, its only a crush
2006-07-07 18:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by ditre 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't that uncommon for a teen to have a crush on an older man, whether it be a teacher, a friends parent, a family friend, or whatever. Just enjoy it, giggle about it, write in your journal about it, and over time it may (or not) pass ... just don't do or say anything out of bounds in regards to it.
It's really a normal part of growing up. Just keep enjoying being the age you are, and live life to the fullest, pursue your education, and being you!
2006-07-08 01:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Even if you did get his attention.....the only thing you would accomplish is being used. You have nothing to offer him that would hold his interest, beyond a one night stand. And the fact that he is "your best friends" dad, AND married gives us a clear picture of the type of girl your growing into. You like older men??? Let me guess.....your dad isn't in the picture?? Play with boys your own age before you get in over your head.
2006-07-08 01:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's part of growing up, having a crush on an older guy. Just remember don't do anything stupid because in addition to his age, he has a wife and family.
2006-07-08 02:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it a secret, keep admiring him and go ooh and aah everytime i see him......
I guess we get attracted to the oldies coz they are mature, caring and rich enough to spend money on us. Also the white streaks make them look handsome (sort of fatherly image).
I too like you had a crush on my professor and I let him know. But it became a little complicated when even he started showing interest.... and my friends finding out.
2006-07-08 02:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some of us guys like younger women but u have to think of what it is going to do to your best friend too yeah she may think its funny but **** her dad and get her family torn apart and im beting she will be a lil pissed but thats just my guess
2006-07-08 01:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by thewaterboy80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is natural dad will be the best friend for their children once they become young.
2006-07-08 02:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by mohd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend years ago in this same situation....she flirted...he did also....they became lovers...and then he dumped her!!! It was a HUGE scandal....and she has never been the same.....any man who is married is OFF LIMITS....and any man that would mess with a 17 year old is a PEDOPHILE....STAY AWAY!
2006-07-08 01:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by lbcgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for him, he'll end up in jail if he touches you.
2006-07-08 01:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋