How can i stop a bully from standing outside my office ...The place is common ...so i can't tell him to move ...He stands there and talks loudly and laughs ..just to disturb me...He and his dirty girl friends do this all the time . My doors remain open . If i close the doors he will take that as my weakness and work more to harass me.
2006-07-07 18:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i am one of the boss and owner.
2006-07-07 20:17:18 · update #1
i am one of the boss and owner.
2006-07-07 20:17:20 · update #2
He makes sure to look at me ...to disturb me ...he gives an early morning visit ...then ..after every hour....or when some one visits me....
2006-07-07 20:23:00 · update #3
He and his group has been doing this on and off for last three years...i have lost my health a lot due to this...
2006-07-07 20:24:51 · update #4
tell your boss?
2006-07-07 18:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by abe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To stop a bully you must dig deep inside yourself become sadisic get between the two grab him by the nose holes bring him to your level and advise him that this behavior will no longer be tolerated. Want to talk go some where else.
This should either get you relieved of your duties or thrown in jail either way you stopped the bully.
Or you could always take and put vasoline under his door handle of his car, then take a fish in a paper bag under the passenger seat of his car, send his email address to all those telemarketers, revenge is sooooo sweet.
2006-07-08 01:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider looking for another job in a less threatening environment. If your boss isn't able or willing to come to your aid, you've either got to put up with it or move on.
2006-07-08 01:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by foofoo19472 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss and call security if it gets to the stage were your not geting your work done. The best way to get rid of bullies is to ignore them they will soon get bored of bulling no one so they will stop.
Good luck
2006-07-08 01:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lion at heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close the door.
He'll have to get more difficult to be able to harass you. That will give you a reason to complain and get rid of him.
(ignore him as much as you can that is the best deterrent anyways)
2006-07-08 01:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't approach him as an enemy, but as a friend. tell him "hey boss, you're a cool guy and i think you're great, but if you could pipe it down about six nothces i'd be in your debt forever." say this when lots of people are around. you'll look good and your problem will be solved
2006-07-08 01:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by joe tunney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a form of harrassment. Tell your boss or call the police.
2006-07-08 01:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by David T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the law and tell them he is a nuisance
give me $5 and i will get rid of him and his tramp girlfriend too
2006-07-08 01:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by cave dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop because if he don't your going to call the police.
If he dont stop call the police and tell what that person is doing to you.
2006-07-08 01:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Fernanda2cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complain bout him to the human resources dept. or your manager... i had the same problem.... so i solved it by going to my manager...its much easier than trying to solve it youself!
2006-07-08 01:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by chi_twnchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋